"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dont Know If Its Over???

StoneCold

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My GF stop calling texting me!!!!

But I dont know if its Over!!!

I never talk to her on the Phone!!!!

I dont send her needy texts or text her everyday!!!

I sent her some No replys!!!!

Is it Time to call, and see whats Up!!!

What Can be Done?

I like her 2 much!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fuglydude

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This is easier said than done man...but drop her, move on. There's lots more where that came from, you'll find someone else who makes you happier.
 

ready123

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well she might've gotten kidnapped

j/k, it's over, move on
 

drak_ool

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i really don't understand what some of you guys' definition of a "girlfriend" is.
Is it the girl you brought home from the bar 2 weeks ago and have been banging for a couple days a week? is it the girl you agreed to become exclusive with even before you two hooked up? is it the girl who kept you in the pvssy trap for 3 months by NOT giving it up? is it the girl who pretends she doesn't know you when you meet her friends?

seriously, i don't think you can talk about a "girlfriend" until at the very least 2-3 months into a relationship, and by that point she would not simply stop calling you/txting you.

so next time, be more selective of the ho who gets that title
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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