"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Don't Kiss Me On Campus!"

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Well, as I have mentioned in one of my old posts I've met a very sweet girl on campus and we are going out for a few weeks now!

More or less everything is pretty cool between us, but one thing keeps me thinking and wondering:

She makes a big secret out of our relationship... most of her friends do not know about us and she does not want to kiss or touch me on campus because someone who knows her could see us together. She says the reason for this big secret is, that she still lives in one apartment with her X-boyfriend plus two more guys and she just broke up with him a few weeks ago. Now she doesn't want him to know that she already has a new boyfriend until she moves out of the apartment...

...what do you think... would that be a reason for you to NEXT her?!?!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Next her only if you would really like her to be more public with her affections. If you're satisfied with what she gives you behind closed doors, then there's no point in just throwing it all away. If you want things with this girl to be serious, then next her because she seriously needs to grow up. I see no reason why she should still try and protect her ex-bf's feelings.
 
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Ha now think why YOU wouldnt want to be seen with a girl in public....Shes obviously looking to hook up with other people, or in the process. Hopefully you are not the one being played here.
 
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Grab her and kiss her, public or not, and when she starts talking about not wanting to be seen, remind her that your relationship is not platonic and tell her that you wont act like her ***** whipped but not-getting-any friend. Alternatively, you could take this charade to an extreme, and be on the prowl while with her on campus. When she raises a fuss, tell her that you're just trying to make it look like you two are not together, since obviously the world will end if somebody sees you guys on campus acting like more than friends. Just don't put up with it if you don't like it.

I may not next her, but I wouldn't commit much to her either. She's volatile, still living with her ex-boyfriend and pulling this crap after only a few weeks.
 
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