In order to be versatile in life's different situations. To be able to fulfill a woman's unconscious wants, or to be able to appeal to the opposite sex in an encapsulating and complete way, a man needs to be versatile himself.
Just like you want your woman to be versatile, you also have to be versatile. And you must be confident that you can fill all the different roles which life's situations may put you in.
You should be an amateur construction worker. You must be handy with a hammer, screwdriver, drills and saws. You should be able to fix things and manipulate the world around you. Even if only slightly. This makes you dependable, independent and self-sufficient.
You have to be an amateur-psychologist. When people, and especially important to us - women, start ranting, raving, complaining, or start to express their unease in a way which is somehow unreasonable, you have to offer the correct response so as to point out the unreasonability of whatever it is they may be saying.
You have to be an amateur-security guard. I believe this speaks for itself. You must be able to confidently stand on your own two feet, and allow your woman to feel safe that her belongings won't be stolen when you are around.
You must present yourself with a certain transcendental quality. In an ideal situation, you must seem almost ethereal. These words - as you can see - if you get into it, are hypnotic. In order to present yourself as a practical superhuman, a superman, you must become cultured, well read, well versed and sophisticated.
These ideals, to me, would make one into somewhat of a civilized soldier. The concept of a civilized soldier seems to be an oxymoron. I don't think it has to be though.
That's why I say this. If you want to get the most out of life and fulfill your potential, you have to cultivate every aspect of yourself. Trust your capabilities. Do things with your mind. Do things with your body.
If we all follow this path, or a similar path, there is no way the world could possibly become any worse. This is the path of progress. The path of developement.
So be cultured. Be stern. Be wise as well. But keep in mind... That inside the heart of a soldier there should be no cold. A soldier fights with determination. Steadfastness. He fights with the drive in his heart to protect those dear to him.
That is why a woman can have a role to fulfill, if she has the opportunity to be with such a man. The softness of a woman, and the sternness of a man like this. They compliment each other perfectly.
It allows a woman to know her role when you know yours.
Know however, that I am just describing here a certain image. This doesn't have to be the ideal. I just think it's something we all have to integrate somehow into our own personalities somehow to be more complete as men. There are other aspects which we must also integrate. For example, we must never forget that boyish imaginative playfulness that we had as children.
Even as children, there are certain qualities that boys have that girls don't. These qualities must not be forgotten in the difficult lives that we may lead.
So remember, guys, to work hard and to play hard, so that we may lead sufficiently fulfilling lives. And remember to rest well in between. Take good care of yourselves. In the long run, these virtues should help you to attain peace of mind and a fulfilled soul.
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Important literature:
The way of the superior man by David Deida
The 48 laws of power by Robert Greene
Just like you want your woman to be versatile, you also have to be versatile. And you must be confident that you can fill all the different roles which life's situations may put you in.
You should be an amateur construction worker. You must be handy with a hammer, screwdriver, drills and saws. You should be able to fix things and manipulate the world around you. Even if only slightly. This makes you dependable, independent and self-sufficient.
You have to be an amateur-psychologist. When people, and especially important to us - women, start ranting, raving, complaining, or start to express their unease in a way which is somehow unreasonable, you have to offer the correct response so as to point out the unreasonability of whatever it is they may be saying.
You have to be an amateur-security guard. I believe this speaks for itself. You must be able to confidently stand on your own two feet, and allow your woman to feel safe that her belongings won't be stolen when you are around.
You must present yourself with a certain transcendental quality. In an ideal situation, you must seem almost ethereal. These words - as you can see - if you get into it, are hypnotic. In order to present yourself as a practical superhuman, a superman, you must become cultured, well read, well versed and sophisticated.
These ideals, to me, would make one into somewhat of a civilized soldier. The concept of a civilized soldier seems to be an oxymoron. I don't think it has to be though.
That's why I say this. If you want to get the most out of life and fulfill your potential, you have to cultivate every aspect of yourself. Trust your capabilities. Do things with your mind. Do things with your body.
If we all follow this path, or a similar path, there is no way the world could possibly become any worse. This is the path of progress. The path of developement.
So be cultured. Be stern. Be wise as well. But keep in mind... That inside the heart of a soldier there should be no cold. A soldier fights with determination. Steadfastness. He fights with the drive in his heart to protect those dear to him.
That is why a woman can have a role to fulfill, if she has the opportunity to be with such a man. The softness of a woman, and the sternness of a man like this. They compliment each other perfectly.
It allows a woman to know her role when you know yours.
Know however, that I am just describing here a certain image. This doesn't have to be the ideal. I just think it's something we all have to integrate somehow into our own personalities somehow to be more complete as men. There are other aspects which we must also integrate. For example, we must never forget that boyish imaginative playfulness that we had as children.
Even as children, there are certain qualities that boys have that girls don't. These qualities must not be forgotten in the difficult lives that we may lead.
So remember, guys, to work hard and to play hard, so that we may lead sufficiently fulfilling lives. And remember to rest well in between. Take good care of yourselves. In the long run, these virtues should help you to attain peace of mind and a fulfilled soul.
_______
Important literature:
The way of the superior man by David Deida
The 48 laws of power by Robert Greene