"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Don't ****ing masturbate.

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This girl I'm seeing came over my place for our date and we end up having sex 4 times in a 12 hour period. This is the most sex I had in one day in my life, as well as the most sex in one day.

Anyway, during my dry spells, I whack off like a madman and it kills sensitivity and ability to climax from a pu55y. I also don't get super hard. It's like my **** only likes my hand.

Anyway, I'm not going to masturbate all week and see how I perform when I see her again this Saturday.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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this thread made me realize why I actually prefer hand jobs and blow jobs to regular sex

is it possible to start enjoying regular sex more if you stop masturbating for a long time? like can you get that sensitivity that makes regular sex enjoyable back?
 

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yep, when i wack off daily i can barely feel *******s

so i stop doing it thursday - sunday at least.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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stayfly said:
this thread made me realize why I actually prefer hand jobs and blow jobs to regular sex

is it possible to start enjoying regular sex more if you stop masturbating for a long time? like can you get that sensitivity that makes regular sex enjoyable back?
Yes, but you have to stop and let your unit and your mind think that real sex is different than simulated sex. You will be a monster if you stop masturbating.
 

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Falcon25 said:
Yes, but you have to stop and let your unit and your mind think that real sex is different than simulated sex. You will be a monster if you stop masturbating.
ok cool.

I'm never masturbating again
 

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You wouldn't have problems if you had the intelligence to get a high caliber girl. Believe me.
 
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YT827 said:
Anyway, during my dry spells, I whack off like a madman and it kills sensitivity and ability to climax from a pu55y. I also don't get super hard. It's like my **** only likes my hand.
I know what you mean. If you masturbate, it's as if your c0ck is only at 75-80% power.

What you mentioned here can be a good thing and a bad thing. If you are less sensitive, you will take longer to *** and so you can bang your girl for longer. I've even seen this presented as a 'last-longer' trick: Masturbate before you go on a date or your girl comes over. I did try this once and I was boning her and boning her for a very long time that day.

So in some ways, this can make you seem more manly because you last longer. A similar trick is to use a thicker condom to decrease sensitivity.
Of course, it might not seem manly if you lose your erection.
 

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I just realised I read this post while I had pornhub.com on the other tab! haha
Seriously, you can't think about stoping masturbation! It is a deaily releaf no matter you do have a sex partner in your life or not...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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People are retarded. Masturbation doesn't kill sensitivity on your penis.

Climaxing release endorphins in your brain that your body perceives as pleasure. Your brain likes and wants as many endorphins as possible; it's how drugs also work.

By masturbating a lot, you release endorphins in your brain at a consistent level, which can actually go unnoticed depending on how much you masturbate. The more you masturbate the less-shocking the endorphins are to the brain. If your brain hasn't received much endorphins in the week, a rush of endorphins during sex will not be any high or lower as masturbation, but it will be a bigger, much greater sock to the system.

As far as getting hard, by masturbating a lot and wanting to get super hard with your girl, you are actually combatting your subconscious. Your penis grows subconsciously that's why you can't just say to yourself grow penis, and it will grow. It doesn't work like that.

Your penis gets hard to better the chances of pregnancy. The harder the penis, the more likely the penis can reach inside the vagina. By masturbating often, you're conscious brain knows that this isn't really sex, but your subconscious does not, so it will do so to actually worsen the chance of pregnancy.
 

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kingsam said:
this ran to 132 PAGES???!!!
Naw. When people keep starting threads about the same exact topic over and over and over and over again, the mods sometimes just merge the threads into one big megathread. They had to do this with some looks threads awhile back to make an 85 page one in the Archives.

Swashbuckler said:
People are retarded. Masturbation doesn't kill sensitivity on your penis.
I don't think anyone meant literally that you lose touch receptors in your skin, buddy. It was much more likely a reference to the fact that masturbation makes you enjoy sex less. Use some common sense.
 
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