"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dont hold me at kissing you *****!

dannowillbookem

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well i just got out of the hospital and back from rehab. i really started coming to this site when i was in the hospital and in rehab (nothing to do all day and night hey why not) and im trying to build my once fearsome game back to where it once was. just letting you know, cause i hate asking questions when i usually answer them but ah well

anyways, i was out wednesday night, and made out with a girl in my buds backseat. to be flatout, this chick is a slut. but i couldnt even get my hand down her pants. we made out and i made out with her titties (jesus christ theyre huge) but i was kinda surprised. ah well, maybe shes just having a bad night.

friday...im out with the same bud, and two girls hitch rides with us to the beach. i was pretty high and acting insane, but to my surprise one of them really went for me. as usual, i lead her to quieter place (laying on the beach til sunrise) and we make out. but christ jesus, i cant get my hand down her pants. not a slut, but had sex twice before so not a virgin prude.


now heres the part where i come to you guys in tears...whats happening to me?:confused:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You're probably not setting the mood before you try to get into her pants. Read up on anticipation and girls building to want it.
 

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From experience, if you want a girl to let you put your hands down her pants you can't just randomly do it. You have to lead up to it to a point where she starts getting heated up and wet down there.

How you do it? Easy:

When you're making out, don't keep your hands still, keep them moving and feel around, up and down her sides. Don't just stick to her lips. Kiss her neck, nibble on her ear, kiss her chin, kiss down her chest, and move around, be unpredictable, then go back to her lips, but quickly move away. This will make her go crazy. REMEMBER: the whole time have your hands wandering, slowly going to the prize, but not so fast. When you're kissing, suck on her lower lip a bit, fondle her tongue, tongue wrestle. ALl of this is to build up the mood so when you do slide your hands down there she'll be receptive. Trust me, it works everytime, as it did last night ;-).
 

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jlazz said:
From experience, if you want a girl to let you put your hands down her pants you can't just randomly do it. You have to lead up to it to a point where she starts getting heated up and wet down there.

How you do it? Easy:

When you're making out, don't keep your hands still, keep them moving and feel around, up and down her sides. Don't just stick to her lips. Kiss her neck, nibble on her ear, kiss her chin, kiss down her chest, and move around, be unpredictable, then go back to her lips, but quickly move away. This will make her go crazy. REMEMBER: the whole time have your hands wandering, slowly going to the prize, but not so fast. When you're kissing, suck on her lower lip a bit, fondle her tongue, tongue wrestle. ALl of this is to build up the mood so when you do slide your hands down there she'll be receptive. Trust me, it works everytime, as it did last night ;-).

wow what a good way to explain it

i agree. girls act on their feelings! if they feel wet.. the want to fuk badly!

what i like to do is make out then slowly move to the neck.. then to the chest.. Kiss not suck.. kiss her breast with her shirt on... around the nipples just lightly then move back up the same way backwards... (neck to the lips)
while u doing that move ur hands.. feel her up... her thigns.. squeeze her ass once a while.. every 3 min.. rub ur hands on her hips then after rub her back.. under the shirt

thats what four play is all about :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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