"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't Hesitate...U will get burned

Lil Magic

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Well gentlemen, through a particularly event that happened to me today, and in essence pretty often to me, I found that just about the absolute worst thing u can do when trying to get with a girl is HESITATE. I repeat DO NOT HESITATE. I was kinda working a few girls by my church and because of this I was HESITATING to figure out which one I was actually intrested in getting with. So im there with this chick who apparently liked me for a few months but even though i did escalate a bit with her I HESITATED to enter a relationship with her. Today i noticed things being a little different. She didnt hug me, talk to me, didnt let me see her phone when I asked and let some other guy,kinda brushed me off. Worst was that I'm riding in the back of the church bus with her and the new guy and the started kissing and feeling each other up...next to me, something I used to do to her but dont now because I HESISTATED. :mad: In addition to this... she apparently has a boyfriend now who ISN'T the guy she's kissing in the bus and HE HAS a GIRLFRIEND. She kinda gives me this look when she's finished like "what? u cudda had this." So take my words of wisdom and run. Decide exactly who u want without a shadow of a doubt and DO NOT HESITATE. Oh, and by the way, any feed back on what U would do in this situation would be much appreciated. Thats all for now from the first great Bahamian DJ.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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fireguy

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Love and hate are opposite emotions. That is why intense love can turn to intense hate. When you see her, try to turn feelings of love to feelings of intense discust and hate when you look at her.
 
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