"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't have LTRs unless...

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you've actually laid the chick! I weep for you guys who are getting into long term relationships and they haven't even fuked the girl yet. There is no way you should be actually with a girl unless you've had sex.

Why? Because now the little slit is going to be some form of value. As the days go by the value of you having sex with her is raising an raising. Do you know how bad women want sex?

It's sad man, your doing all sorts of things wrong, your putting it into a dating frame and a bf/gf frame. You are now the provider type of guy who she logically screens an it takes forever to lay. She has more value than you, an it's all because you wanted a relationship with her when you haven't even done the most natural deed in the world...

I have a friend right now who hasn't laid this girl an he's been talking to her for about 2 months now. This kid is getting no where and he is going to dinner with her in the days coming up. But ask yourself

Why! would you invest so much time and effort when she is now screening you an actually picking when she wants you to enter her. Me personally if I didn't lay in 1 week, 2 if I've been busy then I'm not going for it anymore because now she thinks her little slit is a grand power.

It's funny when you talk to girls an they act like there slit is the greatest. There is a girl I know who only been with one guy an she acts like her slit is da bomb. But she is lying to herself.

You have to have a clear thought in your mind of behavior you will and will not accept from yourself or anyone. An personally if a girl is trying to make sex seem like this GRAND, World championship showdown that happens once a year then you need to assert your frame and your reality right now.

sex is something that just happens as two people realize they enjoy each others company. That's it, its natural an fun. It isn't nothing more or less. There is no way you should be getting a gf you didn't hit yet. I personally don't even build an actuall connection until after the first sex we had together. That is where the actual relationship begins.

It's like today when I laid this girl, she has a bf that hasn't hit it yet. It's been almost 2 months now and he hasn't hit it. How sad! An you know what's funny she had a friend of hers eat her out. Poor guy putting in so much time an effort an he thinks its his gf, but he isn't even hitting it.

Overall its sad, if your doing this just stop it because your messing your own self up. It shouldn't take more than 3 meetings (First time you've met, a day2 and a day 3) to get down an dirty with the girl.
- Don't put the interaction in a dating frame (If your doing this stop because your killing your game an you don't even know it)
- Don't ask a woman out or ask her to be your gf
- Be non judgmental about sex
- Be tottally unaffected with the value she has to offer (sex)

Do this an it will help your game a whole lot. I see a lot of guys out here having gfs and they haven't even hit it yet. It's sad, irrational, and dumb. While your being faithful she is getting fulfilled by someone else.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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All hor "relationships" are short-termed - pimp hos don't love 'em!!! Only have a LTR with your wife!!
 

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wow...


All hor "relationships" are short-termed - pimp hos don't love 'em!!! Only have a LTR with your wife!!
I couldn't have said it better myself
 
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