"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Don't go on a second date with girls who don't put out on the first!

Zarky

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So I have 4 first dates this week. The first two, yesterday and tonight, have been tolerable but unfulfilling. The girl and I have gone out, had a couple of drinks, and ended up making out up against her car. Both times the girl paid half, which is nice but not enough. Normally all this, the fun times, the makeouts, the flirting and talking sexy, the paying half... might induce a guy to try to go out with the girl again. NO.

I am purposely NOT asking these women out again. To teach guys a lesson, which is this:

If women don't put out on the first date, there will be no second date.

It's vital that men join together and enforce this rule, if we want women to put out quickly and easily. I am trying to set an example. These chicks are hot and fun, and would very likely put out for me on the second or at the very least 3rd date, but I am willing to sacrifice this sex in order to make the world a better place for men. I am not going to bother any more with these women, even though I've already invested my time and effort by breaking the ice, listening to their BS for an entire first date, wooing them, etc.

I hope men everywhere will follow my example: if chicks don't put out on the first date, there will be no second date.

I have 2 more first dates this week and intend to enforce this rule on both. These girls are not UGs, they are 7s. The one tomorrow might be an 8, we'll see. But I don't care what they are. No put out on first date = no second date. Period.

If men everywhere did this, we'd all be rolling in poon without much outlay.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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rofl! While I appreciate the gesture of trying to make the world a better place for men I do wonder how exactly are you going to enforce this?

When they text you the next day are you going to reply back that you don't want to see her again cause she didn't put out? Is this going to be your response when she keeps contacting you as to why you haven't talk to her again? :D

I hope you're aware of the risk of decreasing your chances of sex by a million percent ;)
 

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Zarky said:
If men everywhere did this, we'd all be rolling in poon without much outlay.
If men everywhere did this, we'd all be rolling in semen since every woman on earth would turn lesbian.
 
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I like a challenge, if a woman puts out on the first date, to me she is easy and isn't worthy of my time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Three strikes and you're out. I don't always need it on the first date, but it can be nice.
Yup, no proper adult action by the third date is a joke. Girls like that either have some kind of intimacy issues you probably want no part of, have low IL, or most likely, are making a power play by withholding the pvss. There is a perverse thrill in watching that blow up in their faces I can't deny it.

Don't know that I have the balls or enough plates to next every girl that doesn't put out on date one. Not so long ago I had a 33 year old woman (never married, no kids) who wouldn't move past making out, date three rolls around and the panties still won't drop! She got sent home in a cab and nexted. Just wasn't worth jumping through the hoops.
 

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If a women is interested, and we're near my or her place, then I am getting laid on the first date.
 

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All women aren't sluts....
 

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This is one of the most absurd things i've seen on this site. You're a loser buddy, either that or you have a good sense of humor haha.
 

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Zarky said:
If women don't put out on the first date, there will be no second date.


I hope men everywhere will follow my example: if chicks don't put out on the first date, there will be no second date.

I disagree with your premise. It should be.........

If chicks don't put out before your first date there won't be a first date. At least a BJ in the car before you head to Taco Bell. If not, push her out of the car. Men should not be disrespected this way. :nono:

Cheers!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zarky said:
So I have 4 first dates this week. The first two, yesterday and tonight, have been tolerable but unfulfilling. The girl and I have gone out, had a couple of drinks, and ended up making out up against her car. Both times the girl paid half, which is nice but not enough. Normally all this, the fun times, the makeouts, the flirting and talking sexy, the paying half... might induce a guy to try to go out with the girl again. NO.

I am purposely NOT asking these women out again. To teach guys a lesson, which is this:

If women don't put out on the first date, there will be no second date.

It's vital that men join together and enforce this rule, if we want women to put out quickly and easily. I am trying to set an example. These chicks are hot and fun, and would very likely put out for me on the second or at the very least 3rd date, but I am willing to sacrifice this sex in order to make the world a better place for men. I am not going to bother any more with these women, even though I've already invested my time and effort by breaking the ice, listening to their BS for an entire first date, wooing them, etc.

I hope men everywhere will follow my example: if chicks don't put out on the first date, there will be no second date.

I have 2 more first dates this week and intend to enforce this rule on both. These girls are not UGs, they are 7s. The one tomorrow might be an 8, we'll see. But I don't care what they are. No put out on first date = no second date. Period.

If men everywhere did this, we'd all be rolling in poon without much outlay.
:up: ijust think 200 years ago girls didnt have power now we. men, barely have it.. thanks to the social media ,feminism etc
 

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The OP is retarded. The girl I am with now made me wait 7 dates to put out and 3 dates for a kiss. The OP is right if you just want skanks for the rest of your life.
 

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5string said:
Zarky is going to be one motivated guy on his first dates!

Can't wait for the FR's
UH HUH!!! Not to mention, He is going to have a lot of first dates too in order to get laid....

Zark, I appreciate your zest and stance on principles, but you are setting the bar a little high dontcha think???

I like the third date as well...
 

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SoldMySoul said:
UH HUH!!! Not to mention, He is going to have a lot of first dates too in order to get laid....

Zark, I appreciate your zest and stance on principles, but you are setting the bar a little high dontcha think???

I like the third date as well...
Oh the visions of panties flying around, heels up in the air, tables getting knocked over, not to mention his dog getting scared. :eek: If he asks me out, I'm gonna say NO!:p
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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5string said:
Oh the visions of panties flying around, heels up in the air, tables getting knocked over, not to mention his dog getting scared. :eek: If he asks me out, I'm gonna say NO!:p
Or you could be typical and go with him to get the free ride for the date and bail on him!!!!:cheer:
 

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I have laid over 20 girls and EACH one of them who put out in the first date turned out to be a nasty slut. Good luck with them, the OP can have them all!

Don't post this crappy advice anymore.
 

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Yeah man sluts arent cool. I had two run ins with the clinic thanks to sluts...Dirty girl
 

joe henny

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Bluntmaster said:
The OP is retarded. The girl I am with now made me wait 7 dates to put out and 3 dates for a kiss. The OP is right if you just want skanks for the rest of your life.

7?! now that's a bit extreme lol
 

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joe henny said:
7?! now that's a bit extreme lol

Well obviously she wanted to go slow because she wants a LTR. It wasn't bad because she let me know her interest was high in other ways like driving an hour to hang out with me at my place. I actually dumped her after the 6th date for being a prude, and she came back, and then put out on the next date. Dumping her worked, I had a feeling it would since she had high interest.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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