"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Don't Give In To Complete Ug's!!!!!!!!!!!!

BBX

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If your looking for experence, fine. If your looking for your life to be a living hell, not fine. I can't complain, when I was Wbafc, I would of loved any ug giving me a sh.t load of attention and clingyness. Don't get me wrong, i'm not a dj, but i'm not longer afc. Learn from my mistake, if an ug likes you, from the start, streight up ljbf her. Don't just wave it off and think its cute and ignore it. Her attraction will only escalate. It will get annoying at one point or another. And then it will be near impossible to tell her the truth and break her because you still havent lost the afc nice guy all the way. This is what i'm having to deeal with right now. Don't let ug's take you over, especially the clingy ones for all the starting dj's.

There's nothing wrong about lowering your standards for bull faced experence, but beware. A clingy ug can fvck up your life.

BBX
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I agree... Only approach the women you like.

Enough with the quantity, on with the quality...

Up your standards and better women will start to give you IOI's :).
 
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