Don't give in to a woman - always stick to your principles?

[Egoist]

Originally posted by comic_relief
You cannot break oneitis with sleeping with more then one woman. You need to change your mindset. Oneitis comes from desparation.

Go to the root of the problem on why you think that she is a goddess and work forward from there. You are here now and find out what you want in other women. You just have to find a better woman and I know that they are out there. Trust me they are.

Good luck and god speed.

comic_relief

thanks for summarizing the bible for me, dude. :crackup:

-i don't really have oneitis, its more of an ongoing crush thing. It doesn't impede anything i do. This girl has been the one escalating everything. Desperation with me is simply not present. I am the ****, i get what i want, i dont really worry about women.

-I know what i want in women, i never put women on a pedestal, i dont think of any woman as a goddess.

You guys are taking this too close to the heart. I'm a sucker for drawn-out emotional seductions, I am attracted to a certain type of women, so this situation intrigues me. I am much more cold than most of you would think, and like i said before, it would take one wrong move on her part of me to cut every string.

Soo, no oneitis, just something fun and ongoing. I should post about the gothic hottie i had last week. Now that was fun. The problem is that I am too lazy to write about daily happenings type stuff

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
the baby is great thanks for asking.





as for the one it is...look, I had TERRIBLE ONE I TIS..for nearly a freaking yr..and when I got to SS.com back in late 2004..I wanted to break the womens face for it when I realize what it was...I felt like a used loser...I was a loser..even my best friend ripped me on it.


before the one i tis..I was prolly like you..I dated alot of women...I had a fairytale idea of love..

after the one i tis....I realized it was best to move on....it was easy once that choice was made.

for a YR I thought she was perfect, incredible...but mostly..she wasnt in love with me...so it didnt matter...

it didnt matter that she called me FIVE times a day..it didnt matter that she let me pound her, it didnt matter that she would tell everyone how im such a Great guy.


because I loved her and I NEVER got that back.


anyways...now I love someone else..who loves me back equally and its amazing.


you seem like a good guy...dont let the negativity with this change what makes you great.

you know better then to wait it out with a girl after she had a 2 yr live in bf..its a recipe for disaster.

if I were you..id let it go...which means u have to cut her off..she will be fine without you..and you will be fine being emtionally free

good ****.

trust me dude, there is noone more calculating and paranoid when it comes to having a relationship or opening up to someone. It will either happen on my terms and be the right thing, or it won't work at all.

Never been dumped, always had the balls to do what I want and when I want it, to walk away when i had to. So i'm gonna be all right.

 

[satyriasis]

if you have to do anything that accommodates what she wants or would want you to do, its just not worth it.

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by satyriasis
if you have to do anything that accommodates what she wants or would want you to do, its just not worth it.

absolutely. thats why i am always in control. I don't ask for something, i basically tell her. She even told me that she feels like she is in my world when she is around me. (you know, as i pull her into your own reality crap)

 

[mrRuckus]

Originally posted by theSpeculator
You're an idiot. Everyone need help sometime. No matter how emotionally or physically strong they are. Man or woman. Being friends is about helping each other out in those bad times. Compassion is what makes you human. Again you're an idiot.

How ironic.

 

[comic_relief]

anytime. I only read a few posts because I was at school. So I read a few posts and a couple were saying something about oneitis. I figured that was what you were talking about

sorry if I jumped the gun.

comic_relief

 

[theSpeculator]

Originally posted by mrRuckus
How ironic.

Wanna elaborate?

 

[Egoist]

ladies... ladies...

 

[diplomatic_lies]

What if you dont have principles?

 

[satyriasis]

Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
What if you dont have principles?

women will run all over you.