"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Don't give in to a woman - always stick to your principles?

E

Egoist

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 3, 2005
Messages
938
Reaction score
5
Location
The city that sleeps. Sometimes.
Originally posted by comic_relief
You cannot break oneitis with sleeping with more then one woman. You need to change your mindset. Oneitis comes from desparation.

Go to the root of the problem on why you think that she is a goddess and work forward from there. You are here now and find out what you want in other women. You just have to find a better woman and I know that they are out there. Trust me they are.

Good luck and god speed.

comic_relief
Click to expand...
thanks for summarizing the bible for me, dude. :crackup:

-i don't really have oneitis, its more of an ongoing crush thing. It doesn't impede anything i do. This girl has been the one escalating everything. Desperation with me is simply not present. I am the ****, i get what i want, i dont really worry about women.

-I know what i want in women, i never put women on a pedestal, i dont think of any woman as a goddess.

You guys are taking this too close to the heart. I'm a sucker for drawn-out emotional seductions, I am attracted to a certain type of women, so this situation intrigues me. I am much more cold than most of you would think, and like i said before, it would take one wrong move on her part of me to cut every string.

Soo, no oneitis, just something fun and ongoing. I should post about the gothic hottie i had last week. Now that was fun. The problem is that I am too lazy to write about daily happenings type stuff
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

E

Egoist

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 3, 2005
Messages
938
Reaction score
5
Location
The city that sleeps. Sometimes.
Originally posted by frivolousz21
the baby is great thanks for asking.


:)


as for the one it is...look, I had TERRIBLE ONE I TIS..for nearly a freaking yr..and when I got to SS.com back in late 2004..I wanted to break the womens face for it when I realize what it was...I felt like a used loser...I was a loser..even my best friend ripped me on it.


before the one i tis..I was prolly like you..I dated alot of women...I had a fairytale idea of love.. :)

after the one i tis....I realized it was best to move on....it was easy once that choice was made.

for a YR I thought she was perfect, incredible...but mostly..she wasnt in love with me...so it didnt matter...

it didnt matter that she called me FIVE times a day..it didnt matter that she let me pound her, it didnt matter that she would tell everyone how im such a Great guy.


because I loved her and I NEVER got that back.


anyways...now I love someone else..who loves me back equally and its amazing.


you seem like a good guy...dont let the negativity with this change what makes you great.

you know better then to wait it out with a girl after she had a 2 yr live in bf..its a recipe for disaster.

if I were you..id let it go...which means u have to cut her off..she will be fine without you..and you will be fine being emtionally free
Click to expand...
good ****.

trust me dude, there is noone more calculating and paranoid when it comes to having a relationship or opening up to someone. It will either happen on my terms and be the right thing, or it won't work at all.

Never been dumped, always had the balls to do what I want and when I want it, to walk away when i had to. So i'm gonna be all right.
 
S

satyriasis

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 17, 2005
Messages
96
Reaction score
0
Location
Baltimore, MD
if you have to do anything that accommodates what she wants or would want you to do, its just not worth it.
 
E

Egoist

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 3, 2005
Messages
938
Reaction score
5
Location
The city that sleeps. Sometimes.
Originally posted by satyriasis
if you have to do anything that accommodates what she wants or would want you to do, its just not worth it.
Click to expand...
absolutely. thats why i am always in control. I don't ask for something, i basically tell her. She even told me that she feels like she is in my world when she is around me. (you know, as i pull her into your own reality crap)
 
M

mrRuckus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2005
Messages
4,382
Reaction score
85
Originally posted by theSpeculator
You're an idiot. Everyone need help sometime. No matter how emotionally or physically strong they are. Man or woman. Being friends is about helping each other out in those bad times. Compassion is what makes you human. Again you're an idiot.
Click to expand...

How ironic.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

C

comic_relief

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 29, 2004
Messages
3,282
Reaction score
49
Location
Baltimore, MD
anytime. I only read a few posts because I was at school. So I read a few posts and a couple were saying something about oneitis. I figured that was what you were talking about :p

sorry if I jumped the gun.

comic_relief
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top