No joke. Don't fear getting older. EMBRACE it. Things will only get better for you younger dudes as you get older
IF:
You do well in school.
Get a good job or strive for one. SAVE YOUR MONEY. Invest!
You work out and keep yourself IN SHAPE.
Groom yourself your best. Use good shaving products, get a hairstyle or beard, 5 oclock shadow etc. that compliments your face.
Dress your best in STYLE. (You can do it for cheap. Just shop in high end stores on CLEARENCE racks on big specials using COUPONS.) You can clean up on some high priced sh1t for CHEAP.
You learn to be socially open and talk to EVERYONE. Don't put off anyone unless they prove they are worthless. Talk and boost your conversation skills by meeting people who've done more than you. Talk to all kinds of chicks. You don't HAVE to date them.
Travel when you have enough money. See sights in the area. Expand your "portfolio" of things you've done.
Experience different things besides just clubs, coffee shops and day "game". Go to free historical places, lighthouses, events, workshops
Learn to dance. Take dance classes.
Try ALL different kinds of foods by looking up the best restaurants for the type you want to try in your area.
Take self-defense classes.
Do sports.
Expand in different areas.
And do it for YOU.
You don't have to do them to "get back at chicks", don't do them FOR chicks.
Do it for you. And be your best self. Learn and grow from every past experience negative or positive.
BELIEVE ME. You move out of that comfort zone and are willing to even drop those who are "friends" but will seek to drag you down once they see you are "better" than them while not doing it all just to get "more or better" chicks..
You'll wind up being able to conversate and relate to almost anyone. You'll have more people drawn to you. You'll also need to develop a solid inner core so you'll know and not care positive or negative (as in being pissed) at which chick who suddenly shows "interest" is only trying to use you no matter how "hot" she is.
You'll have done it for yourself.
And believe it or not. A lot of younger chicks ARE into older dudes. Don't fear getting older. A lot of chicks if you are aware are EXTREMELY insecure no matter how AWing, hot stuff etc. they may act. It's a weak game face as they not only may realize they don't have much to offer an older man but looks and sex, but they have that peer pressure of their peers and that fear of not being able to live up to a REAL MAN they claim they want but can't handle or may dump them to then be ridiculed further by their age group.
Even at that point when you are truly whole with yourself and not needing someone to "complete" you as if you're a broken person to begin with you'll still notice chicks who try to play you or use you. It won't matter as you'll drop them quick and move on. You won't care and it won't affect you in a negative way. It'll be just dropping off dead weight and not carrying it around.
Improve yourselves first. Don't neglect the important aspects of your lives wasting them trying to chase chicks whom change their minds like the wind.
Meet, talk, date, etc. different kinds. But if you find they are dragging you down or getting in the way of YOU improving YOURSELF and not just relying on them for looks, and sex as validation for a black hole in your inner self and your self improvement get rid of them and get back on track.
You as a man should be growing as a man. Not as a "man" who's sole purpose is defined by women "accepting" him.
You keep on that path while having a solid inner core...
You'll be amazed at how you won't care less about chicks in the past who've "dissed" you when you suddenly see younger versions or even all ages interested in you beyond what you ever thought you would have.
No joke.
IF:
You do well in school.
Get a good job or strive for one. SAVE YOUR MONEY. Invest!
You work out and keep yourself IN SHAPE.
Groom yourself your best. Use good shaving products, get a hairstyle or beard, 5 oclock shadow etc. that compliments your face.
Dress your best in STYLE. (You can do it for cheap. Just shop in high end stores on CLEARENCE racks on big specials using COUPONS.) You can clean up on some high priced sh1t for CHEAP.
You learn to be socially open and talk to EVERYONE. Don't put off anyone unless they prove they are worthless. Talk and boost your conversation skills by meeting people who've done more than you. Talk to all kinds of chicks. You don't HAVE to date them.
Travel when you have enough money. See sights in the area. Expand your "portfolio" of things you've done.
Experience different things besides just clubs, coffee shops and day "game". Go to free historical places, lighthouses, events, workshops
Learn to dance. Take dance classes.
Try ALL different kinds of foods by looking up the best restaurants for the type you want to try in your area.
Take self-defense classes.
Do sports.
Expand in different areas.
And do it for YOU.
You don't have to do them to "get back at chicks", don't do them FOR chicks.
Do it for you. And be your best self. Learn and grow from every past experience negative or positive.
BELIEVE ME. You move out of that comfort zone and are willing to even drop those who are "friends" but will seek to drag you down once they see you are "better" than them while not doing it all just to get "more or better" chicks..
You'll wind up being able to conversate and relate to almost anyone. You'll have more people drawn to you. You'll also need to develop a solid inner core so you'll know and not care positive or negative (as in being pissed) at which chick who suddenly shows "interest" is only trying to use you no matter how "hot" she is.
You'll have done it for yourself.
And believe it or not. A lot of younger chicks ARE into older dudes. Don't fear getting older. A lot of chicks if you are aware are EXTREMELY insecure no matter how AWing, hot stuff etc. they may act. It's a weak game face as they not only may realize they don't have much to offer an older man but looks and sex, but they have that peer pressure of their peers and that fear of not being able to live up to a REAL MAN they claim they want but can't handle or may dump them to then be ridiculed further by their age group.
Even at that point when you are truly whole with yourself and not needing someone to "complete" you as if you're a broken person to begin with you'll still notice chicks who try to play you or use you. It won't matter as you'll drop them quick and move on. You won't care and it won't affect you in a negative way. It'll be just dropping off dead weight and not carrying it around.
Improve yourselves first. Don't neglect the important aspects of your lives wasting them trying to chase chicks whom change their minds like the wind.
Meet, talk, date, etc. different kinds. But if you find they are dragging you down or getting in the way of YOU improving YOURSELF and not just relying on them for looks, and sex as validation for a black hole in your inner self and your self improvement get rid of them and get back on track.
You as a man should be growing as a man. Not as a "man" who's sole purpose is defined by women "accepting" him.
You keep on that path while having a solid inner core...
You'll be amazed at how you won't care less about chicks in the past who've "dissed" you when you suddenly see younger versions or even all ages interested in you beyond what you ever thought you would have.
No joke.
