Don't read the f'n DJ bible...It is dumb and a waste of your time unless you literally have no game. It will literally have you overanalyzing every aspect of your game. I think there is something in there that says don't wash behind your ears so you'll stop washing behind your ears. You'll be calling every girl back on the 3rd day. You'll be f'n robot if you get obsessed with it. That is the pitfall of almost every veteran on this board so do not let it happen to you!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Don't fall victim to the cult!
- Thread starter Zero Hero
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Doggystyle
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I have been saying this too, every post i see when people have asked a question which could be answered pretty quickly and then some one replies saying read the DJ bible is bad advice, and a waste of there time. I personally have read almost everything i can get my hands on (without spending a penny too i might add), and it actually had a negative effect on my game, because i started questioning everything about me when there was only a slight thing i had to work on in the first place.
I don't think that the majority of people here need to work on every aspect of there game, they find there sticking points and just work on that by doing a search, same goes with any books i read on seduction these days, i normally just skip to the parts i want to work on and see what they have to say on that unless i enjoy the writing style then i read more and i even disagree with a lot of it now.
You don't need to read every single thing in books on seduction, its a reference book not a novel.
I don't think that the majority of people here need to work on every aspect of there game, they find there sticking points and just work on that by doing a search, same goes with any books i read on seduction these days, i normally just skip to the parts i want to work on and see what they have to say on that unless i enjoy the writing style then i read more and i even disagree with a lot of it now.
You don't need to read every single thing in books on seduction, its a reference book not a novel.
squirrels
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Shut up.
Stop whining about how the DJ Bible has destroyed your life. It's like anything else in life...you start by learning the basic skills, then you learn the application, then you learn WHY they work...and when they don't. Then you can start to make your OWN rules based on YOUR experience.
Everyone praises the DJ Bible when they first get here, read it, and start actually getting dates with women. Then later on as they outgrow it they start to curse it as if it somehow screwed them over. You screwed YOURSELF over by going from relying on one system to relying on another without learning a goddam thing except rote memorization.
Whether you're a drone or a scholar is YOUR choice. Not sosuave.com's. So grow up.
Stop whining about how the DJ Bible has destroyed your life. It's like anything else in life...you start by learning the basic skills, then you learn the application, then you learn WHY they work...and when they don't. Then you can start to make your OWN rules based on YOUR experience.
Everyone praises the DJ Bible when they first get here, read it, and start actually getting dates with women. Then later on as they outgrow it they start to curse it as if it somehow screwed them over. You screwed YOURSELF over by going from relying on one system to relying on another without learning a goddam thing except rote memorization.
Whether you're a drone or a scholar is YOUR choice. Not sosuave.com's. So grow up.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
squirrels
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LOL...tool.Zero Hero said:go chase a nut, squirrels, i am not talking about myself but drones like you
Didn't you just get scammed by some Russian chick because you paid on the first date thinking it was gonna get you laid? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=113068
And yet you're advising other n00bs like you to follow in your footsteps and decry the collection of tips established on this site as some kind of "drone cult"?
Like I said, "shut up". Of course the "rules" aren't absolute, but for people such as yourself, they'd be a good starting point.
I think its full of a lot of good tips. Since reading it I've felt a little more confident, a little more outgoing, and a little better because of it. I dont see why you seem proud of not taking away anything useful from reading it. Infact, I almost feel bad that you wasted that much time reading it and found nothing useful. For the other 90% of people out there I would strongly suggest reading it to make even the smallest improvements. My belief has always been that its not a list of laws and essential tools, but rather a guide towards self improvement. If you couldn't take anything away from it then congradulations your either a true DJ or a fool whos too set in his ways to change. Either way I don't think its right to discourage others from reading it.
tr0ublemaker
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The DJ Bible reinforces some common sense that we don't consciously think about..it also adds new common sense to some..
It's the foundation..it helps you realize everything isn't black and white..helps you think more analytically, strategically, and more open-minded..don't censure it man..it's good stuff
It's the foundation..it helps you realize everything isn't black and white..helps you think more analytically, strategically, and more open-minded..don't censure it man..it's good stuff