Don't fall for the bait after nexting

[j0504s]

I recently nexted a girl because she was displaying low IL. Haven't spoken or texted in about 2 weeks.

She texted me yesterday:

Nexted Girl: Hey haven't talked to you, how have you been?
Dummy: Pretty good actually, going to blah blah blah tonight.... what are you up to?
Nexted Girl: (no response since yesterday)

She was checking to see if she still had me hooked and I fell for it.

When you totally next a girl, make sure that you do not respond to her texts. She is just looking for an ego stroking. You nexted her for a reason, so stick to it.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Uncharted again. good thread

 

[Uncharted]

Edit: phone double posted

 

[fuko2007]

I don't categorically go NC with girls I dumped for low IL. Though in your case you responded way too soon and the "Pretty good actually" seems a bit forced (why "actually?"). And third, you asked her a question meaning that you were intent on keeping the conversation going. Just came off as way too earnest. "Actually?" I'm still trying to get my head around that. Why did you use that word?

She waited 2 weeks to contact you, you wait at least a week to respond, and you shoot her out a simple phrase like "Doing great, fuzzy face" or something. No question, just a light statement.

OR

You wait that week and then don't even answer her question, just say "Whats up fuzzy face" and see what she says.

EDIT:

Also, look how she framed the convo from the beginning.. "Hey, (I) haven't talked to you." That's her saying that it was her choice not to talk, that she's in control of the situation. If she'd said "Haven't talked with you," or "We haven't talked," it would be quite different.

You've got to analyze sh*t at this level. Women do it naturally. You've got to choose your timing and words very carefully and understand the implication of every word you say.

that would be dumb to wait a week to respond to her text. She would know you did it on purpose. I would wait a few hours then reply back short. Ive been Great. Just real busy. Thanks for asking.

 

[Alvafe]

I would send a

"who is it?"

 

[PlayHer Man]

I would send a

"who is it?"

I usually save this response for attention wh0res and true c*nts.

 

[Smok1nAce]

I would send a

"who is it?"

this is proley you best bet, i usually send this to AW, and exs, then never reply back it they respond. :rock:

 

[pyros]

The general idea here is not fully correct in my opinion.
I once got a girl's number. Texted and asked her out, she did not reply, so I went no contact.
Almost six months later, she texted me: hey, how are you doing?
me: good thanks, and you?
her: (no response)

Some weeks later she texted me again:
her: hello Pyros, are you still going to X club?
me: yeah, btw, tell me your FB so I can add you there
her: (no response)

Some months later she texted me again:
her: hello Pyros, what are you doing lately?
me: Im doing X and Y
her: nice, Im stying a lot blah blah
me: wanna grab a drink tomorrow night?
her: oh cool, ok

Then we met, I kind of figured out that she had an on and off boyfriend, but we made out, and ****ed in my car.
Some days later we ****ed again at my place, and I never called her again, neither did she.

So my point is, it does not matter if you nexted her, if SHE contacts you she still has some interest and if SHE decides, suddenly, that she wants to **** you, she will, so just be nice and cool when she contacts you because you never know.

You're too worried about: what if I showed her too much interest and she just wanted and ego boost?

So what? dont take it personally and just think she is a crazy *****, no big deal.

P.S.
I currently have some other girls I nexted because they did not show much interest, but I am waiting for some of them to contact me in the near future when 'they have their mind clear', in other words: she has no more boyfriend, no **** buddie around, she is not sad, she is bored, she needs some sex... among other reasons.