"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Focus on yourself man. That's the best thing to do.
Right now your ego has been struck deeply and it's best to focus on bringing back self confidence and self reliance.

I get where you're coming from about feeling "lost" after a break up. I've been there. It's not pretty. It's lonely. And it will be hard to go completely no contact but do it, do it for yourself and for the self respect you deserve.

If you have a close group of guy friends, spend time with them as much as you can. That will help you get out of the house and distract yourself from thinking too much about her and stop you from calling her.

What I've learned is that you must focus on building a life for yourself. That your life is to be like a cake and woman is nothing but the frosting. Whether a woman is in your life or not, the cake is still there. Because you've built it and it isn't dependent on a woman.

Work out, eat better, get a hobby or two, do martial arts (I recommend jiu jitsu, very humbling), focus on your business and school.

Stay busy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thanks guys, no contact have been applied, now it is just keeping it.

I just have a dress and a belt of hers, and I think the best thing will be to return it is as fast as possible, so that I could cut her of completely.


Once again, thanks!
 
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Throw her sh!t in the trash!

You have no obligation s to her now.

If she calls tell her to fvck off!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That's the thing, the situation is so illogical, I know I have nothing to gain (except the great sex), and she was such a ***** towards me, but I am still thinking about her, still missing her, and a bit sad that after 2 years, she could do something like that towards me..

Man, this situation is so weird, it really makes sense now with the 'give her it all, and when she peaks, pull it all away at once', this situation is seriously throwing me through some mental terror, but as with everything else, time will heal, and when a week has gone by, without thinking of her, I know I am over her. I hope I recover as a better man, at least I gained the experience
 
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European-DJ said:
That's the thing, the situation is so illogical, I know I have nothing to gain (except the great sex), and she was such a ***** towards me, but I am still thinking about her, still missing her, and a bit sad that after 2 years, she could do something like that towards me..

Man, this situation is so weird, it really makes sense now with the 'give her it all, and when she peaks, pull it all away at once', this situation is seriously throwing me through some mental terror, but as with everything else, time will heal, and when a week has gone by, without thinking of her, I know I am over her. I hope I recover as a better man, at least I gained the experience
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There is nothing more pitiful than a guy who doesn't respect himself.
 
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I returned her stuff, said bye bye, without a hug or anything; all within 1-2 minutes.

Afterwards she texted me 'great, my shirt is broken... why were you in such a hurry?', I called her and told her it wasn't on purpose that the shirt had broken, and that I was sorry for that. Afterwards, she mentioned that my last message was weird, because I had implied that we were better of without each other.
The conversation ended all of the sudden, when my doorbell rang, and I was like

Me: "gotta go, bye"
Her: "Wait what"
Me: "I really gotta go, bye"

And I hanged up.

An hour late, I missed her call. An hour after that I send her a text about my modem, that I forgot at her place. I didn't get an answer, I probably never will. Guess I will just buy a new one, and let that be my final message to her.

I think that she thought it was weird, I actually think she had it like 'I won this, it was a great thing I dumped him'. Because of the way I acted, a bit stressed, and I think she could tell that I deep inside wanted her back, but I know it is wrong, I really shouldn't have those feelings, and I hope NC is going to help me.
 
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