"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don't drink and drive, damnit! ;)

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Crap...I was at this party yesterday... anyway, was pretty wasted and was making out with this chick.
After a while I got this blackout, and a few hours later I'm on my way home (dont know how I got there, haha ;) ...apparently, she got my msn somehow, and says that I promised to meet her again so she can get to know me when I'm sober (don't know what happened between us...).
I think we might have fvcked, since she said I left her about an hour after my blackout. Btw, she is probably a 5 or so on my scale, so I really don't want to escalate.

Anyways, I told her on msn that I don't remember that much and that I thought she was drunk (which she said she wasn't :rolleyes: ...probably was though). Also that I couldn't really see her again... don't really want to hurt her feelings (as that could lead to me getting an unwanted reputation...).

Just needed to spill my beans people :cool: ...so dont come saying I'm all AFC for looking for advice and crap.

So just a recommendation; take it waaay easy on the alcohol next time ur at a party, or u may end up with a chick u really dont want :p
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I thought this post was gonna have some heart-wrenching story about your girlfriend dying while you were driving drunk. Instead it just stated the obvious. But it is legitimate advice, so don't drink and drive.
 

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I have some better advice: Don't drink.
 

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too many people these days drink to get drunk and not drink to have fun,,,, ecpesially where i live , everyone here is like on a race to see who gets drunk fastest... I have only been really drunk twice in my life , once at my cousins birthday party and once when it was my second time that i drank alchohol.... now i mix the drinx good so that it tastes good and give me a buzz rather then doing a fifty fifty wich after 4-5 glasses made me really drunk i,.... not a good idea if u ask me....
 

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Originally posted by True Wolf
I have some better advice: Don't drink.
Yeah since I quit drinking, my HS life has been alot better. I still smoke sometime, but not at parties, just with my close friends at my house every so often.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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not drinking=no drunken hookups.
and who doesn't love them drunken hookups.[well the ones where its a hot girl atleast. know ur limits. and double-check chicks with friends lol"is she aight man?"]
i'm going to get plastered now.
GI Joes n Army Hoes party here i come.
 

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Drinking isn't good. what's the point in drinking? so you can look "cool"?....yeah, there is NOTHING cooler than some person sittin' outside chuggin' a forty....
 

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Drinking isn't good. what's the point in drinking? so you can look "cool"?....yeah, there is NOTHING cooler than some person sittin' outside chuggin' a forty....
its actually quite fun
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Drinking isn't good. what's the point in drinking? so you can look "cool"?....yeah, there is NOTHING cooler than some person sittin' outside chuggin' a forty....
HELL YES!!

Them forties is gangsta. Nothin' better than downing a nice Olde English 800.

Actually Olde English tastes like sh*t, but it'll get the job done. I prefer nice vodka to malt liquor (Grey Goose, Absolut, etc.). And I'm a fan of beer as well.

I don't know what you naysayers are talking about. If you keep yourself in control, drinking can be a helluva lot of fun. Personally, when I drink I always make sure I still have control of myself. I have never driven drunk, I have never thrown up or passed out from drinking, I've never done anything I regret later on, I've never just drank for the sake of drinking (I only do at parties or when hanging out with a small group at someone's house), and I always remember what I do, so I'm never just waking up somewhere I don't know where I am. However, even through all that I still like to drink and get drunk. Being drunk is a good feeling, you lose a lot of your cares and worries, and it eases tensions and awkwardness in many situations. Additonally, it's a social activity that is fun.

Unfortunately, not everyone that drinks is like me and they let themselves get out of control sometimes. That's their problem. Despite this, I will still continue to drink as long as I still enjoy it and keep it controlled.
 

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i got stoned n wasted...and madeotu with liek a 7 asian girl.
ehhh not somehting i'd do sober. but the ngiht was pretty chill.

and i left my almost-gf a drunken message which was sorta bad. btu i bet she laughed. but she didn't call em back. lol.
 
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