"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't do this

muscleman

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w2teZ8Ft04E&feature=player_embedded

No need to watch the whole thing, but around 35 minutes onward skip through the sections to check out the body language and 'excitement' the girl has.

This guy went well above and beyond just to meet this girl after texting her for 5 years. Pay very close attention to how unexcited she really is. Sure she's smiling and kisses him and says 'yes', but underneath it all you can tell it's indignation.

Unfortunately there's no '30 days later' follow-up.

EDIT: watch the first 7 minutes for sure. She basically admits to what she wants, which is everything he isn't haha.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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flashpoint

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lol. considering all she wants is to be bent over by a tattooed thug, i have little hope for him here :D
oh jesus. you gotta give a girl what she wants not what you think she deserves.
 

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Phuck me runnin that sh!t gave me douche chills. When will the pussification of American males stop? I wanted her to say FOOK NO! so bad. She seemed uncomfortable as hell and cursed the day she signed that waiver to be on a show.

She was probably thinking.."phuck this, I'll say yes so I don't look like a tw@t on TV and dump his faggy a$$ when we're outta here"

Unreal.

$hit, I'd love to see a 7 day follow up!
 

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what a ****ing wanker
 

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Yea painful to watch I got a long distance girl ive talked to for a couple years still haven't see her but been ****ing countless girls while talking to her it's all gravy. just can't put all your eggs in 1 basket. + I got some good nudes of this girl and she's in Hollywood might have her own show coming up shortly so i could make a small fortune
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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He fooled her into thinking that he is a big rockstar stud when he played with his band, hence how he even attracted that type of girl in the first place. Excellent example on how perception can start you off with high IL's among women. Even if you're an afc.
 
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