"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't date a girl who travels

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nickface

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She looks like she has a nice ass.

Sorry op, didn't read her post whatsoever.
 

SgtSplacker

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Yeah man, met this cutie on POF a while back, we started chatting. I saw she was 41, no kids and listed herself as wanting kids... ok cool. Then I find out she is an airline stewardess. WTF?! how are you supposed to have kids if you are flying around all the time? These girls are single for a reason.. Anyways, if someone is going to go jetsetting leaving someone else to care for their offspring it's gonna be me!
 

pdx1138

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a girl I dated did travel a few times a year.

And would casually hookup with whomever conveniently sat by her at the hotel bar each evening.
 

Johnny Alias

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Hmmmmm tough one. I want a kid too, but also want the chick to be able to be independent and support herself. Finding the perfect combination of hotness, responsibility, good mother, and career oriented is BRUTAL.

I'm seeing an HB9 next week. She's fricking amazingly hot and seemingly cool, but she travels about 50% per month due to her job. What do you do? You cant ask her to find another job. If she did give birth, no woman I know would be willing to not see their baby 50% of the time. Crazy.

I do like the idea of her being gone that much when the kid's like 5. I could handle a lot of the load then and REALLY appreciate her when she got back from trips in the sack and taking back some of the kid responsibility.

Hmmmmmm. Adopt in these situations?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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