"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't date a girl who travels

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She looks like she has a nice ass.

Sorry op, didn't read her post whatsoever.
 
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Yeah man, met this cutie on POF a while back, we started chatting. I saw she was 41, no kids and listed herself as wanting kids... ok cool. Then I find out she is an airline stewardess. WTF?! how are you supposed to have kids if you are flying around all the time? These girls are single for a reason.. Anyways, if someone is going to go jetsetting leaving someone else to care for their offspring it's gonna be me!
 
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a girl I dated did travel a few times a year.

And would casually hookup with whomever conveniently sat by her at the hotel bar each evening.
 
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Hmmmmm tough one. I want a kid too, but also want the chick to be able to be independent and support herself. Finding the perfect combination of hotness, responsibility, good mother, and career oriented is BRUTAL.

I'm seeing an HB9 next week. She's fricking amazingly hot and seemingly cool, but she travels about 50% per month due to her job. What do you do? You cant ask her to find another job. If she did give birth, no woman I know would be willing to not see their baby 50% of the time. Crazy.

I do like the idea of her being gone that much when the kid's like 5. I could handle a lot of the load then and REALLY appreciate her when she got back from trips in the sack and taking back some of the kid responsibility.

Hmmmmmm. Adopt in these situations?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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