"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Don't count down the days since you last spoke to your ex

buzzin_frog

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Some men will start counting the days after they decide to go No Contact.......you are doing a great disservice to yourself

You should never do that!!

The whole point of going No Contact is to move on from your ex......to forget about her.....to heal from your bad experience....meet new chicks.....and start enjoying your life

How the hell can you do that when you're counting the days since you last spoke to her?

Your whole goal is to forget about her and move on.....you can't do that as long as you have a running countdown in your head knowing the exact number of days since you last spoke.....that defeats your whole purpose

Your ex doesn't give a sh!t since the last time you spoke.....do you think she is counting the days too?.....hell no, she is busy banging the new guy she is with.....so why are you thinking about the last time she treated you like sh!t?.....doesn't make any sense to me

You shouldn't even know the exact number of days.......that shouldn't even cross your mind.....the more you think of that.....the more you think of her....which prevents you from letting go and improving yourself for future women

Some guys will count the days....then they will begin to miss their ex even more.....then they will call her just to get ignored or get a lukewarm rude response.....then those guys have to stat all over again

When you're busy doing important things, you won't even be thinking about her....that's what you should be doing

So, starting from this day.....don't even think about the number of days.....she will start to fade from your mind so you can meet better women

Focusing your thoughts on a woman who treated you like sh!t isn't worth it....but each day you count down the days you are still thinking of her

Don't even give her a thought.....forget about the number of days....you will have a better mind set...you will feel better.....and you will see an over all improvement in your life
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Another good thread bro :up:

Keep'em coming....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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asa_don said:
only people who have visions of their ex coming back count.
Correct :up: . Man-up, you're princess is gone....
 

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adam225 said:
Correct :up: . Man-up, you're princess is gone....
yep. men should be counting the number of new lays not the number of days.
 

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I was guilty of doing this, glad I don't give her much of a thought anymore.
 

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While we are thinking about how long we are "nc", she is taking multiple c*cks up her butt.
 
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