Funny you said that...last chick I talked to over the phone seemed cool and simple. After talking about life in general for about 20 minutes she hangs up for no reason, no explanation...I called back, nothing...day later , thinking maybe she had issues with phone etc...nothing...sounds like bat **** crazy to me!!Burroughs said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Don't confuse BPD with basic female nature
- Thread starter Bokanovsky
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PlayHer Man
Banned
Modern women feel no duty or responsibility to show respect, commitment or even basic friendliness to men. To most women, men are like tools or appliances.. like a printer or a microwave or even a car. She uses it when she needs it, then forgets it exists until she needs it again. Once its no longer useful, she throws it away and gets a better model.FinalWay said:
Interestingly.. when men treat women the same way, they are considered scum and get attacked both by women and white knights. Stuff like: "You can just use a woman for sex and leave!!!" But its ok for a woman to use a man for free dinners, entertainment, transportation, etc. and disappear from his life forever. If he "expects" something in return.. he is an a*shole. However, when a woman has sex with you.. you now owe her something unless SHE decides you don't.
A man needs a good reason to abandon a woman. However, a woman needs no reason to abandon a man. :crackup:
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
Some would say that THIS pretty much sums it up:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=MzDK70zO-Eo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=MzDK70zO-Eo
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
https://rationalmale.wordpress.com/2012/01/20/borderline-personality-disorder/
While I will agree that a lot of guys are too eager to jump on the BPD diagnosis bandwagon for what is basically elements of female nature, it's import we don't fail to acknowledge it, or recognize the behavioral cues for it.
It's funny how the same guys who are quick to embrace some self-diagnosis of Asperger's Syndrome are also the ones saying not to be so hasty calling a girl a BPD sufferer.
While I will agree that a lot of guys are too eager to jump on the BPD diagnosis bandwagon for what is basically elements of female nature, it's import we don't fail to acknowledge it, or recognize the behavioral cues for it.
It's funny how the same guys who are quick to embrace some self-diagnosis of Asperger's Syndrome are also the ones saying not to be so hasty calling a girl a BPD sufferer.
This post makes no sense..women in poor environments are better mothers? Poor women should not be having kids that can not afford. And the only reason women in other counties ''appear'' loyal because there kowtowing to some traditional role. Women in general have a deep obsession for status and money.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I like how one guy commented on that vid:Victory Unlimited said:
"Don’t try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other."
Don't confuse BPD with basic female nature .........I don't believe you can......if you have been in a relationship with one
If you have been in one of these relationships (and I have been in scores of relationships), you can't possibly confuse BPD with basic female nature. out of all the scores of relationships all the women were either nice, nasty , quirky, shouty , emotional but not satan.........you will know when you get to meet miss satan.
It is just so totally fvcked up you will feel like you have been hit by a train, god knows what would have happened if I met her at 20 and not 38......probably 6 feet under.
If you have been in one of these relationships (and I have been in scores of relationships), you can't possibly confuse BPD with basic female nature. out of all the scores of relationships all the women were either nice, nasty , quirky, shouty , emotional but not satan.........you will know when you get to meet miss satan.
It is just so totally fvcked up you will feel like you have been hit by a train, god knows what would have happened if I met her at 20 and not 38......probably 6 feet under.