"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Don't confuse being a phallocrat with being a misogynist

DonJuanit0

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Firstly, I would like to say that these two words are both Greek so I will explain them a little bit since I am Greek.

Phallocrat derives from 2 words, phalos and cratis. Phalos is the male genitals and cratis is someone who holds. What phallocrat actually means is the one who believes that men are better than women. I'd include myself in this category.

Same as phallocrat, misogynist derives from 2 words, misos and gynaika. Misos is hate and gynaika is woman. Misogynist is someone who hates women in general!

Now, the reason I make this thread is because people in this site tent to hate on women more than embrace them! So easily call them sluts, stupid and whatever they are being called.

I understand that we are here to support each other, and yes obviously we are on the men's side, but that doesn't mean we have to hate on women or treat them like garbage! If we actually believed that, we wouldn't be here in the first place! We would all be little faggots worshiping each other.

My point is that you should quit blaming everything on women! They are who they are, with their problems and their nature and it is our duty to comprehend and win over them. Hating them does no good!

Would a real DonJuan or an "Alpha male", as you guys like to use these words, call a woman a slut? Seriously? Just because she facks another guy and not you? He just wouldn't care for her, wouldn't waste his time! We are here to become better men, not some hating ****s!

By becoming a better men, women will come eventually. Being a jerk can prove right when you want to be with a woman, but being a true gentleman with morals and beliefs will get you much further than just a woman!

I'm tired of seeing posts like, women are stupid, sluts, ruthless and w/e! They are human and they act like ones! Just like we do! Their nature and way of thinking is different! Try to understand them instead of hating them and you'll get much more!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Phallocrat"? I frickin love it! Thanks for posting.
 

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I don’t hate women – I hate the feminist ideology with it's entitled attitude and cannot respect the modern woman that is more often than not the epitome of SLUT.
 

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Blinkers said:
I don’t hate women – I hate the feminist ideology with it's entitled attitude and cannot respect the modern woman that is more often than not the epitome of SLUT.
Oh, I do hate feminism as much as you do! I told you, my category is phallocrat! Women are the epitome of SLUT in a world where men are the epitome of AFC! True dat! But I think we have a chance here to differ from all these people. See more than meets the eye...

This site has helped me a lot understand women, I have read a lot, the bible and many other staff. I will never though prejustice all women or a case of someome because she facked someone else that she is a slut! We should be better than this!
 

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If she sleeps with LOTS of people freely and openly = SLUT
If you did the same = SLUT
I don’t have double standards, I recognise patterns and utilise the words in our vocabulary best suited to describe the situation.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJuanit0

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Blinkers said:
If she sleeps with LOTS of people freely and openly = SLUT
If you did the same = SLUT
I don’t have double standards, I recognise patterns and utilise the words in our vocabulary best suited to describe the situation.
Exactly! Words are suppossed to mean something so we shouldn't use them so easily in every occasion!

I don't talk personally for you, but for most people here who have a tendency on hating women! And once again, I do agree with what you said here!
 

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Most guys use the word slut in this context.

If she is having sex with more people than he wants her to.

If a guys girlfriend sleeps with another guy, he will call her a slut even if she's only slept with two people in her whole life. Still gets labelled a slut because she's giving it up to someone else. It's all relative.

Just look at a recent post on here, a user called a girl a slut because she was standing naked in a doorway. To me that's just kinky, would he be calling her a slut if it was him on the other side of the door? Doubt it. It's all relative.

If you were going to settle down and found out your girlfriend loved to lick her ex boyfriends bumhole, guys on here would tell you she's a slut. But if you were the ex-boyfriend in question you wouldn't say that. It's all relative.

If she fvcks 15 guys in a week, she is probably a slut. It's not that relative.


Slut = Women sleeping with more guys than the guy wants her to.
 
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