"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't cherry pick your field reports.

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I see more field reports which is encouraging. But I always wondered if some guys shy away from posting field reports because they had a bad night, a medicore night, or maybe made some mistakes. I would encourage those guys to post too. Even if your night (or day in the case of daygame) was a total cluster-F, don't be ashamed to post about it.

Don't be the guy who ONLY posts his occasional lay report. While those are fun to post and read, less experienced guys can learn from your less successful experiences too. Plus it gives them a sense of reality.

I'm finishing up a class right now. After the final, I'm going to be hitting the field. I will be posting some reports then.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mike32ct said:
I see more field reports which is encouraging. But I always wondered if some guys shy away from posting field reports because they had a bad night, a medicore night, or maybe made some mistakes. I would encourage those guys to post too. Even if your night (or day in the case of daygame) was a total cluster-F, don't be ashamed to post about it.

Don't be the guy who ONLY posts his occasional lay report. While those are fun to post and read, less experienced guys can learn from your less successful experiences too. Plus it gives them a sense of reality.

I'm finishing up a class right now. After the final, I'm going to be hitting the field. I will be posting some reports then.
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Agreed. I've learned more from what other people would call "failures" or "bad nights" more often than from what people would say were "successes". Sometimes it sucks having to rehash everything that went wrong on a bad night, but ignoring it only deprives you of learning from the things that caused the night to be bad in the first place. I personally don't get a charge (no pun intended) from repeatedly sticking my finger in an electrical socket.
 
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Good post bro and I completely agree.

There's more to learn from an unsuccessful pick up attempt, then a lay report.

Practice makes perfect.





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