"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't cherry pick your field reports.

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I see more field reports which is encouraging. But I always wondered if some guys shy away from posting field reports because they had a bad night, a medicore night, or maybe made some mistakes. I would encourage those guys to post too. Even if your night (or day in the case of daygame) was a total cluster-F, don't be ashamed to post about it.

Don't be the guy who ONLY posts his occasional lay report. While those are fun to post and read, less experienced guys can learn from your less successful experiences too. Plus it gives them a sense of reality.

I'm finishing up a class right now. After the final, I'm going to be hitting the field. I will be posting some reports then.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mike32ct said:
I see more field reports which is encouraging. But I always wondered if some guys shy away from posting field reports because they had a bad night, a medicore night, or maybe made some mistakes. I would encourage those guys to post too. Even if your night (or day in the case of daygame) was a total cluster-F, don't be ashamed to post about it.

Don't be the guy who ONLY posts his occasional lay report. While those are fun to post and read, less experienced guys can learn from your less successful experiences too. Plus it gives them a sense of reality.

I'm finishing up a class right now. After the final, I'm going to be hitting the field. I will be posting some reports then.
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Agreed. I've learned more from what other people would call "failures" or "bad nights" more often than from what people would say were "successes". Sometimes it sucks having to rehash everything that went wrong on a bad night, but ignoring it only deprives you of learning from the things that caused the night to be bad in the first place. I personally don't get a charge (no pun intended) from repeatedly sticking my finger in an electrical socket.
 
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Good post bro and I completely agree.

There's more to learn from an unsuccessful pick up attempt, then a lay report.

Practice makes perfect.





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