Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Don't blink first: it's a battle of Wits

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Whenever you go anywhere that has beautiful women, don't... blink... first. Whoever focuses their attention on the other party first (between men and women) - loses. Just act like: yes, they ( women) exist but, you see them all the time and there is nothing special about them. This applies to everywhere you go most especially social events and must be done even though you have never got a girl in your whole life.


The game is usually so easy for women. You need to step out of the matrix of being just another horny guy. Women are highly perceptive and use their peripheral vision ALOT. When you figure they are not looking, just realize that majority of the time they are actually fully aware of their immediate environment. Most times they are on a microscopic level; subtly scanning for your reaction to them and respond accordingly. If you act like she is a goddess because of her beauty she will assume the power position. It's better to give yourself a fighting chance by letting the woman give you attention first through subtle or obvious cues. Then you're money!

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Very true. Gotta act like they don't exist. Hot women usually only notice the aloof ones.
 

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Very true.

You never stand out if you're another drop in her sea of orbiters. Play it mysterious, and let them come to you.
 

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I don't understand. Are you saying we should stare into their eyes without blinking or ignore them like they don't exist?
 

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SeymourCake said:
I don't understand. Are you saying we should stare into their eyes without blinking or ignore them like they don't exist?
No I'm saying you should ignore them like they exist but you are not sure of them neither are you impressed until they prove themselves. This applies especially to guys who never have success. A caveat though is you must at least make an effort to feel good about yourself and present your best self.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Women who are very attractive tend to have men like puppets on a string. The women look at the men from an outside vantage point and internally/externally laugh at our reactions to them. Men should do the same. Ask yourself a few questions like :

- Why is this woman dressing so seductively? (so that guys freak out thus boosting her self esteem)

- Does she want to be worshipped/revered on some deep level within her? (yes)

- Is she dressed like this for herself? (heck no well maybe for her ego so yeah... )

- What will happen if I don't treat her like she poops golden rocks? (she will notice)

- What will happen if i talk to her while giving off the vibe that she is not God's gift to women without disrespecting her? ( she will become putty in your hands)
 

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good stuff , had thought about this theory before just couldn't figure out how to put it in words

also explains how guys who are already in relationships or have p00sy on tap seem to attract chicks a lot quicker and much easier than guys who don't
 

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Bingo-Player said:
also explains how guys who are already in relationships or have p00sy on tap seem to attract chicks a lot quicker and much easier than guys who don't
That's a simple correlation. If your sexual and emotional needs are taken care of, you're way more relaxed, so you won't need or want to ogle the chicks, not in horny/desperate mode anyway. It all comes down to the DJ mindset of having a life of your own, not seeking a woman to complete your life. Of course, and someone stated this beautifully a few days ago so I just paraphrase, "there's a difference between KNOWING you have access to püssy and WISHING you had".
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Moroder said:
That's a simple correlation. If your sexual and emotional needs are taken care of, you're way more relaxed, so you won't need or want to ogle the chicks, not in horny/desperate mode anyway. It all comes down to the DJ mindset of having a life of your own, not seeking a woman to complete your life. Of course, and someone stated this beautifully a few days ago so I just paraphrase, "there's a difference between KNOWING you have access to püssy and WISHING you had".
It must be said that knowing you have access to p*ssy does not have to mean that you have a woman. You just have to believe that you CAN have one.
 

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BraddH said:
Battle of the most stupid people.
You'll be surprised to hear that I actually don't entirely disagree with you. Unfortunately this framework that I have mapped out applies to the hot chicks and they tend to be shallow. The guys who want them don't yet know better. But this is to help them have success and find out for themselves .
 

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Double post -Most times a woman will only give you as much as you show you are willing to take from her. Dating is not as scary as we make it but unfortunately it has become mystified all over. It's all about socialising and interacting happily and with a mind that forces itself to be at peace even if it's not.
 

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I don't think I agree with this notion. For years, the key to becoming a Don Juan (aside from it being a mindstate) was to smile and approach women. If you're ignoring them as if they don't exist, then best believe your sex with them will be non-existent. All you're doing is lowering your chances.
 

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SeymourCake said:
I don't think I agree with this notion. For years, the key to becoming a Don Juan (aside from it being a mindstate) was to smile and approach women. If you're ignoring them as if they don't exist, then best believe your sex with them will be non-existent. All you're doing is lowering your chances.
There's a saying that goes : "there is more than one way to skin a cat"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SeymourCake said:
I don't think I agree with this notion. For years, the key to becoming a Don Juan (aside from it being a mindstate) was to smile and approach women. If you're ignoring them as if they don't exist, then best believe your sex with them will be non-existent. All you're doing is lowering your chances.
lol what a retard if u think by looking at them more often and smiling to her

she will like you more, if anything, you will be friendzoned, especially if she doesn't find you physically attractive

the typical beta man does that ****, they whiteknight, smile, stare

your sex life will remain the same anyway, whether you look or smile at some random ***** or not
 
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