"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't Become A 'Glory Days' Loser

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You know that type of guy, the scene of him sitting around the bar, beer in hand, reminiscing on the glory days of old.

While his stories he holds as his last remnants of that lost relic of youth, and as he feels a sense of entitlement of his past conquests and rewards, his inner self is aching of a rotten sense of underachievement. His glory days have past him either from the drudgery of children, a nagging wife, or the deep emptiness that there isn't much else for him, as the cheers from the stadium tunnels still echoes, taunting his current state of happiness while mocking the conditions that have given rise to lack of.

FVCK THAT noise.

Don't be a glory days guy. Be the guy who sees glory always around the corner, glory peeking over head, and although it may take more to earn it then days of old, you know you are capable of attaining that glory again. It may come in different forms that you use to be used to, but because you haven't held on to past memories and stupid beliefs of what used to be the best days of your life, you have not become lazy in seeing them and finding them.

Your glory days are all the days you are proving yourself wrong with new achievements, however small...and that is not by escaping your current 'sorry days' back in to what you thought were 'glory days'...but by showing up your old self, and proving that motherfvcker wrong.

so lift up those cups and tell that glory days talking chump, "Cheers to all I'm going to do!"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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