"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dont be too easy, guys!

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so i was talking to a friend of mine (who i have no interest in) and i got some insight in how girls think sort of. i thought i would contribute to this forum somehow and here's our chat about some dude chasing her. so learn from it.


girl: he likes to call me, but i don't like talking on the phone
me: oh really
me: u dont like talking on the phone
girl: no
me: why?
me: i used to be like that, now i dont mind it at all.
girl: oh
girl: i don't mind
girl: cept i get bored
me: do u really
girl: yeah
me: who hangs up first
me: him or u
girl: i always do
girl: cuz he calls me from work
girl: JUST TO ASK ME WHAT I SUGGEST FOR LUNCH
girl: he's in ****en *out of state*
girl: i have no idea what the hell is out there
me: lol, aw how cute.
me: how often does he call

girl: so let me give you a little background
girl: when i was a sophomore
girl: he was a senior, captain of *some sports team*
girl: and one day he asked me for notes
girl: and offered to pay me for them
girl: a week before he graduated he took me to dinner
girl: and i figured i'd never see him again
girl: maybe like six months ago he left me a message on *some social networking site* inviting me to dinner to catch up
girl: so we did and then, he messaged me again in like march letting me know he'd be in *the same city as her's* for a weekend
girl: and asked me if i wanted to hang out
girl: so we hung out friday night, saturday night
girl: and even though he had all these girls coming at him at the bar, he'd always leave with me
girl: and i'd make him sleep on the couch
girl: lol but it's cuz omg he just came on too strong
girl: he like got drunk and told me he liked me
girl: and omg TOO MUCH
me: lol
girl: i can't like a guy who makes it obvious he likes me ya know?
girl: and i didn't understand why he would always look for me
girl: when i was not putting out
girl: an def he wanted *****, there was plenty to go round
me: putting out?
girl: yeah, not like i was hooking up with him or anything

*random chit chat*

me: how did even tell u he liked u anyways
me: "oh god, theesee feeeeeelliinnnggggssss"

girl: no
girl: first he told my friend
girl: that he only paid for those notes
girl: cuz he had a crusho n me
girl: and didn't know how to talk to me
girl: then he noticed my phone had my dog on it
girl: and so did his
girl: and he's like "oh my gosh, i wonder if ur the one"
me: lol why cant u like a guy who makes it obvious that he likes u
me: then how else would u kno he likes u

girl: i rather he play with me
girl: otherwise it's too easy
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol typical AFC. And look her biatch , running her mouth behind his back . Showing how AFC he is .

This is a prove that you can get a girl with AFC behavior , but , there can come someone with a little more balls that will bust her balls and she will dump the sh!t out of you .

Poor boy .

Its funny , how some guys act like AFC , thinking they are gaming the chick and have a tight game .
 
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Isn't chatting online AFC too? The OP should have used the chat to get her #, call her up and get some action.

Not just "random chit chat".
 
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Oops my bad I missed the part about you not being interested in her...
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
lol typical AFC. And look her biatch , running her mouth behind his back . Showing how AFC he is .

This is a prove that you can get a girl with AFC behavior , but , there can come someone with a little more balls that will bust her balls and she will dump the sh!t out of you .

Poor boy .

Its funny , how some guys act like AFC , thinking they are gaming the chick and have a tight game .
yeah, what a horrible/wonderful world we live in. its weird knowing one of my female friends (maybe all) think like this. but i could see why now, if i have 5 girls chasing me, "why not choose the best one? or even better, get the hotty that's been looking at me but hasn't not chasing me."
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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