Don't be this guy

[Burroughs]

damn

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/22/magazine/22Paternity-t.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0

 

[WoodB]

Excellent ariticle. This is a good man. He has taken a beating from a nasty woman.

 

[Warrior74]

This is what I got out of the article.

In an age of DNA, when biological relationships can be identified with certainty, it can seem absurd to hew so closely to a centuries-old idea of paternity. And yet basing paternity decisions solely on genetics places the nonbiological father’s welfare above the child’s

This is the lie. Basing it on genetics puts the truth above everyone's welfare. Because it hurts everyone I call it fair. It's the splitting of the baby. It is Solomon's harsh wisdom. The cuckold hurts emotionally. The child hurts. The woman's lies are laid bare and she is diminished in the eyes of her offspring, the other dad is forced to take over his financial and emotional paternal duty.

It's fair to everyone because it hurts everyone. Otherwise, give all parties a choice, including the cuckold, on opting in or out of the parental role. In the end, it's holding the woman responsible for her actions, the third rail of American politics.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Unless the woman is a virgin when you bang her and gets pregnant right after.. you should always get a DNA test before taking care of ANY spawn.

The truth is more important than offending people. Unfortunately, the rotten apples make it bad for the fresh apples. And since we make being a rotten apple so easy these days... fresh apples will continue to suffer until we put the rotten apples back in their place.

This means.. "girl power" white knighting needs to END. "Girl power" white knighting allows anti-social female behavior to go unchecked. This creates selfish, narcissistic, entitled monsters with no morals who have little or no fear of retribution.

 

[switch]

LMAO this guy should do himself a favor and shoot himself.