"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Don't be stupid & leave diablo+others alone

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Haha, post!=reply
 

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I used to moderate a forum. I can relate.

The internet is a big wide world. My attitude was: It'll grow back.

It's like a controlled burn on a forest or prairie. Sometimes the dead plants, garbage, and debris chokes the life out of the area. So, you slash and burn. What happens is the forest or prairie grows back stronger than it was before the burn.

I don't know about the rest of you, but there are a couple forums that I don't even bother checking because it's so choked with "debris" that there appears to be nothing of value to be found.

In this situation, where there are 6 or 7 stupid azz threads about "boo hoo! I'm a dumbazz and Diablo doesn't let me do stupid sh!t!" I would most likely delete all the hate threads, ban ALL the members on the "hate Diablo" bandwagon, and kick back comfortably knowing...

It will grow back.

Then get back to business: seduction, DJ'ing, etc.

Forums run well with "good cop/bad cop" moderation. Don't cry because Diablo is "bad cop". Personally, I appreciate the "Thor" style of moderation.

Keep on droppin' hammers Diablo!
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