"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dont be Scared Any Longer

Smooth Player 056

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High School.......are you the guy that get home from school...goes on the computer reads up on techniques, reads inspirational posts, gets pumped for the next day.....................and when the next day comes, you feel pumped, but not as much as the night before, you check out chicks at school as you walk down the halls, and in class, you get as far as THINKING about approaching them, but then find an excuse not to?.....or maybe waiting too long and a ****block comes?

If I have just described you, I URGE you to go approach at least 1 girl tomorrow. Tommorow is the beggining of the rest of your life. Trust me.....once you approach 1 girl, you whole confidence and self esteem will dramatically skyrocket. Go to school tommorow telling yourself your a DJ all day.

Go get a permanat pen. Write the word DJ on the bottom of your wrist or arm. Everytime you feel like giving up and not approaching look at it.......think of all the fun you could miss out on if you dont do this one approach.

Good luck men!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I love walking the halls and listening to people announce a hello to me. I don't need to try to do something, all I need is a hi, what's up and I seem to get it started.. :S.

No hookups yet, but that isn't everything, just the contact is nice.
 

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smoothe player where have you been?!?! Nice post btw but i need your HighSChool bootcamp...if you could PM that to me or post it, that would be great!
 

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It's going to take a lot more than a few post to turn me into the guy I want to be. Not only am I really insecure and paranoid, but I'm depressed, not 'I want to kill myself' depressed, but things are pretty bad right now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeh smooth player is telling the truth.. I found this out this week. haha i made my first approach on wendsday at school.. then after that u relize how fukin easy it is..
 
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Man just walk through the hallway slowly taking your time and just say hi to every female(maybe not every female) that walks past you. And if you get a little smile from them go ahead and start a conversation or something.
 

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Yeah Smooth Player.. wheres your HSDJBC man plz pm it to me or something!!!

But anyways theres nothing wrong with you writing...

Creator or HSDJBC
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Creator of ultimate highschool technique

... i see nothing wrong with it, youve acomplished quite a lot

anyways youve described me and thats why ive fallen short of your week1 of HSDJBC... ill do 1 approach on monday and hopefully keep it rolling
 

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Yeah, to clear up the thing on my HSDJBC, after week 3 I was sending it to everyone who signed up via email, instead of posting it here. I typed up all 8 weeks and saved em on my word document. my family moved houses and my dad threw away my computer, and got me a new one for my birthday. So now the HSDJBC is rotting away in some dump.lol....Im gonna start it over soon.
 

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u just described me smooth player. i'm going to take u up on that advice....it's not that hard!!!! i'm a dj, i'm a dj, i'm a dj....well, lets see how it goes. i gotta stop thinking too much about what moves i'm gonna make, but make the move as soon as it pops into my head. 3 second rule...come on....change now, or forever sulk in a dream deferred. the time is now!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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describe your first approach.. what did you do, where did you approach her at? what did you say?
 

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That's an awesome post.

Guys who are described in post numba 1, the only thing holding you back, is you. Can't be helped.

But if you are going to pump up on inspirational material, do it like a few hours before you go to school, because it will hit you at key points in the day. lol. At least, I am up at 6 in the morning, doing nothing in particular.

We have something like the HSDJBC that we are putting together, but it is rough atm.

Sorry to hear that your whole material got thrown away Smooth, it's sad.
 

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i'm run off inspiration and feeling high in spirit.

i said hi to 2 cute blondes in school today, obviously stuck up, but i had smelled some seductive perfume and asked what kind they were wearing. they told me and i said, "smells sexy"...that was it.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
High School.......are you the guy that get home from school...goes on the computer reads up on techniques, reads inspirational posts, gets pumped for the next day.....................and when the next day comes, you feel pumped, but not as much as the night before, you check out chicks at school as you walk down the halls, and in class, you get as far as THINKING about approaching them, but then find an excuse not to?.....or maybe waiting too long and a ****block comes?

If I have just described you, I URGE you to go approach at least 1 girl tomorrow. Tommorow is the beggining of the rest of your life. Trust me.....once you approach 1 girl, you whole confidence and self esteem will dramatically skyrocket. Go to school tommorow telling yourself your a DJ all day.

Go get a permanat pen. Write the word DJ on the bottom of your wrist or arm. Everytime you feel like giving up and not approaching look at it.......think of all the fun you could miss out on if you dont do this one approach.

Good luck men!

thats smooth,
do you speak from experience?
 

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Re: Re: Dont be Scared Any Longer

Originally posted by RaWBLooD
thats smooth,
do you speak from experience?
yes, I used to be just like that.......luckily I changed by applying techniqes taught here, and just workin the field.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go get a permanat pen. Write the word DJ on the bottom of your wrist or arm. Everytime you feel like giving up and not approaching look at it.......think of all the fun you could miss out on if you dont do this one approach.
Writing stuff on your hand works wonders. When I want to incorperate a new skill into my game I'll just stratch something down on my hand (not litterally... with a sharpie) and every time I look at it I remember to apply it. For example if I was just learning c/f I'd just write CF on my hand.
 

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lol, he seems to be going down way too hard on himself...

just man up dude. i know, u pray for the opportunities to present themselves in school or whatnot, and say that you'll be the man and do something while u have the chance, but once you're in that position, u find a reason to back out. don't let the fear break you down. stand up and say, "now or never." all it will make you do is feel better about yourself. self esteem is a big thing. next time you see the chick you wanna talk to, just do it, dont' think. it'll only hurt you more and more, the more you keep backing down to fear. just face it.

that's what i tell myself.
 

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Hmm, Smooth Player eh? I think you're the guy that a few people were telling me about.

You're doing some good stuff kid. :)

AS
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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