Dont be her therapist?

[Alpheta]

She cries about other matters and im always straightforward. I tell her that she should do what she think is right and that she is the only one who can rectify her life. That she shouldnt blame others and should look at herself.

I said this and she just repeats herself. In the end shes like 'your annoying' lol. Im trying to help i dont get it. Yes im blunt but im not her emotional tampon.

Shes done this quite a few times and its annoying.

I admit that her getting upset probably stems from me making her insecure by picking on her flaws.She mentioned it tiday in a long essay typed text. I replied by telling her i understand and that i admit i make remarks that are below the belt.

How do you deal with your girl spilling her emotions and problems out to you? I dont want to be her therapist. Am i looking at this the wrong way?

 

[Lozboss]

Stop posting numerous threads about this woman.

This has been answered in about 5 different threads already.

 

[Tictac]

Stop posting numerous threads about this woman.

This has been answered in about 5 different threads already.

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OP is her girlfriend not her therapist.

And this is about the fifth time he has done this.

If you don't know by now that you shouldn't do stuff like this or if you do that you are expected to listen only, you are just engaging is repetitive stress disorder for masochistic purposes.