Don't be her therapist, but what if she vents about her toxic bf?

[Fela Kuti]

People say don't be her therapist. But what if a hb is venting about her toxic relationship. This is happening to me and it's definitely a relationship she should get out of. I'd like to tell her that but then remember one of "the rules": don't be her therapist, don't give advice. But this girl is a pushover and I don't think she has the guts to get out of it so I have the urge to smack some reality into her. What do you think?

 

[Igetit!]

People say don't be her therapist.

That's true.

If there were a "top 10" list if things to never do with a girl,being her therapist would rank #2. You SHOULD NEVER be a chick's therapist.
In fact,you'd have a better chance with a girl if YOU CAUSED her problems,instead of being the guy who listens to her problems and tries to solve them.

But what if a hb is venting about her toxic relationship.

If she's venting to you about the toxic relationship she's in with some other dude,that means YOU f*cked up.


Read that again.....

If some chick you're repeatedly trying to date....if she repeatedly keeps turning all your attempts to date her into her own little therapy sessions,that means YOU f*cked up.


It means your "game" is weak...you have a WEAK frame. It means she's controlling the dynamics of the conversations. That's YOUR FAULT,not hers. If she can get free therapy sessions out of you and you're too much of a chump to either walk away,or flip the script and clearly make your interest known,that's on YOU.

This is happening to me and it's definitely a relationship she should get out of.

So it's "DEFINITELY" a relationship she should leave. Ok....and how do you know this? Who told you? She tell you?

See....you've ALREADY f-ed up. You shouldn't be discussing her relationship to begin with. Her relationship....good or bad is NONE of your business.

What are you.....a "Dr.Phil"? What...you go from hot chick to hot chick giving them relationship advice,trying to save them from the "bad men" they get involved with? If that's your method for trying to get chicks,you're in for one long....loooooooooong lonely road.

I'd like to tell her that but then remember one of "the rules": don't be her therapist, don't give advice.

Ok,question.....

What DO YOU want with this girl? You wanna date her,have sex with her.....be her friend,or what?

What do you want with her?

But this girl is a pushover and I don't think she has the guts to get out of it so I have the urge to smack some reality into her. What do you think?

What do we think....well me,I personally think you should just leave her alone. Like the guy above me said.....if you're not gonna come straight and make YOUR INTEREST known,I think you should just walk away.

You say she's in a bad relationship. Uhhh...so? What's it to you? I think you should worry bout YOUR OWN dating life,instead of meddling or being drawn into the dating lives of other people.