Dont be her Fantasy!

[kavi]

All women have a fantasy. This fantasy is dying but its not dead yet. Do not be this guy.

Her Fantasy guy:

FInancially/Careerwise Successful
Good-looking
Tall
Motivated
Doesnt question the system
No Morals, no thinking.
Aggressive
Goes for what he wants
Works hard
Horny, Sexualised

WANTS HER AND DOES ANYTHING TO GET HER


DO NOT TRY TO BE THIS GUY

This is gonna be counter-intuitive but Im gonna explain. This is important.

This is like all men in womens fantasies, Christain Grey, Rhett Butler, Mr Big. IN REAL LIFE THESE MEN WILL ALWAYS LOSE

YOU HAVE TO DESTROY HER FANTASY. Only if you can destroy her fantasy and bring her into your reality can you both be happy. If you let her fantasy win then you will both lose in the long run.

Her fantasy is just to fuel her narcissistic ego. That is all it is. Every single aspect of this fantasy is created to boost her ego. The better the man, the more he wants her, the more it boosts her ego. This type of guys is so busy working hard trying to be successful and also get her and make her happy, he is not Game-Aware hence she can play him all day long. This guy is not in control.

Every single woman has this fantasy so every single woman must be broken by you before you enter a relationship with her. If you have not broken her fantasy then you will not win or be happy in the long term.

This means the easy relationships will not work out for you long term. Only the tough process of destroying her fantasy and bringing her into your reality can you win with her.

Notice that this fantasy is far away from the Game, the best type of man who has power over women, the pimp. WOMEN NEVER FANTASISE ABOUT PIMPS THEY FANTASISE ABOUT SIMPS.

 

[kavi]

I don't consider you a poster that people should take advice from. But please, explain why being those things are bad, either for her or for you.

Because if instead we should be:
Broke
Ugly
Unmotivated
Passive
Scared of risks
Not working hard
Not sexualized/no s3x

Just because that's what she wants, you seriously need help.

Idk man, icba explaining stuff to ppl, I dont get why ppl cant figure out this stuff, im giving the direction, its easy to figure out the further steps and a high iq is not required so Idk why the general level of intellect is so low.

The reasons like I said I simple. Look at most guys who have all those things, do you see any of them winning? Like for instance Tom Brady and such men.

They have no success or especially power over women cos they just play the game put in front of them instead of the real game.

If you are a successful guy then to break her fantasy you have to break her power and ego. You have to make sure she knows your value and success is not for her ego or to brag to her friends. She has to broken humbled.

One way to do that is to make her wait. Too many guys are rushing in and afraid to make a woman wait. They are afraid of losing the chance. But there is no competition (look at how many women are single and the number is increasing) and your value cannot fall just due to time. If you are baing aggressive to take what you want then this is how you play into her fantasy. You have to wait and let her break. If you 'take' what you want then she is not giving it up or accepting your leadership, something cannot be given what is taken.

Your not in a position to talk big cos all guys like you are losing. Played your (conventionaly) way you can either run around chasing short term relations for the rest of your life or get into an ltr at some point and run into a dead-end emotionally and romantically.

 

[corrector]

Idk man, icba explaining stuff to ppl, I dont get why ppl cant figure out this stuff, im giving the direction, its easy to figure out the further steps and a high iq is not required so Idk why the general level of intellect is so low.

The reasons like I said I simple. Look at most guys who have all those things, do you see any of them winning? Like for instance Tom Brady and such men.

They have no success or especially power over women cos they just play the game put in front of them instead of the real game.

If you are a successful guy then to break her fantasy you have to break her power and ego. You have to make sure she knows your value and success is not for her ego or to brag to her friends. She has to broken humbled.

One way to do that is to make her wait. Too many guys are rushing in and afraid to make a woman wait. They are afraid of losing the chance. But there is no competition (look at how many women are single and the number is increasing) and your value cannot fall just due to time. If you are baing aggressive to take what you want then this is how you play into her fantasy. You have to wait and let her break. If you 'take' what you want then she is not giving it up or accepting your leadership, something cannot be given what is taken.

Your not in a position to talk big cos all guys like you are losing. Played your (conventionaly) way you can either run around chasing short term relations for the rest of your life or get into an ltr at some point and run into a dead-end emotionally and romantically.

How do you break her fantasy without using a club and a bag? (Comic depiction on how people marry in backward societies)

 

[kavi]

How do you break her fantasy without using a club and a bag? (Comic depiction on how people marry in backward societies)

To break a womans fantasy is the same as breaking her ego.

She has to lose power.

That means you make the rules.

The easiest way is to simply make her wait. She will try to forget you and tell herself she aint attracted to you cos you " lost your chance" "was too p2ssy to make a move", "let her feel down", "someone else will beat you".

If you wanna win you have to risk losing. For someone to break down and reconfigure it always takes time. Time is the most important thing. If you are under time pressure to get to any end point then by definition you have no inherent value. A good product doesnt need to be sold with time pressure, only a crappy product needs to be sold quickly. A good product has inherent value and that appreciation increases the more the customer learns and researches before 'buying'.

 

[corrector]

To break a womans fantasy is the same as breaking her ego.

She has to lose power.

That means you make the rules.

The easiest way is to simply make her wait. She will try to forget you and tell herself she aint attracted to you cos you " lost your chance" "was too p2ssy to make a move", "let her feel down", "someone else will beat you".

If you wanna win you have to risk losing. For someone to break down and reconfigure it always takes time. Time is the most important thing. If you are under time pressure to get to any end point then by definition you have no inherent value. A good product doesnt need to be sold with time pressure, only a crappy product needs to be sold quickly. A good product has inherent value and that appreciation increases the more the customer learns and researches before 'buying'.

I have been waiting for 9 years.