"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Don't be afraid of angry/unpleasant faces

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You know, a lot of chicks walk around with a nasty look on their face. An expression that doesn't make you wanna approach her or talk to her. Well, here is one tip:

IGNORE THAT SH*T!!!

By the time I started approaching all girls I wanted to, regardless of hotness, I started noticing this.

Once I started a conversation it was like I flipped a switch. Like BOOM, these chicks went from cold to warm and smiling. Now, this doesn't work for every girl, but definitely a great majority. It's just a shield that she's holding up, and I noticed it's most of the time because of shyness. Especially with the hot ones. If you break through that, she'll reveal her true face.

The reason it works well for me probably also has to do with the fact that I always smile. Especially when I talk to people.

So, to sum it up:
  • Ignore the fact that the look on her face is unpleasant
  • Just approach her
  • Smile! :)

Smiling is important people. Also in general life. It's short, you know :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yeah sometimes they just have like school work and stuff on their mind. your smile might alleviate the stress a bit.

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Apparently I walk around looking like I want to murder people, when I'm just thinking of things I have to get done. Some people just tend to fall into a mean or angry expression naturally when they are decent people behind the appearance.

books by their covers eh?
 
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Yea, I know what you mean. I pay attention to it since I found this out. My expression can be serious, but I'm always open. People find it easy to talk to me.
 
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