"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't be afraid of angry/unpleasant faces

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You know, a lot of chicks walk around with a nasty look on their face. An expression that doesn't make you wanna approach her or talk to her. Well, here is one tip:

IGNORE THAT SH*T!!!

By the time I started approaching all girls I wanted to, regardless of hotness, I started noticing this.

Once I started a conversation it was like I flipped a switch. Like BOOM, these chicks went from cold to warm and smiling. Now, this doesn't work for every girl, but definitely a great majority. It's just a shield that she's holding up, and I noticed it's most of the time because of shyness. Especially with the hot ones. If you break through that, she'll reveal her true face.

The reason it works well for me probably also has to do with the fact that I always smile. Especially when I talk to people.

So, to sum it up:
  • Ignore the fact that the look on her face is unpleasant
  • Just approach her
  • Smile! :)

Smiling is important people. Also in general life. It's short, you know :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah sometimes they just have like school work and stuff on their mind. your smile might alleviate the stress a bit.

:)
 
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Apparently I walk around looking like I want to murder people, when I'm just thinking of things I have to get done. Some people just tend to fall into a mean or angry expression naturally when they are decent people behind the appearance.

books by their covers eh?
 
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Yea, I know what you mean. I pay attention to it since I found this out. My expression can be serious, but I'm always open. People find it easy to talk to me.
 
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