"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I cannot stress the importance of applying yourself to lots of women. Even two is better than one. The point is to not become too involved with just ONE woman. You'd put too much attention on her, and that's a no no.

For example, you've gotten his girl, we'll call her ''Earth", who is perfect in everything. "Earth" means everything to you. You just can't loser her because if you do, you'll die. Or so your mind thinks. You worship "Earth", provide ritual sacrifices, even cook for "Earth" 24/7. "Earth" dumps you because you seemed desperate and needy. So now you've been bansished by "Earth". What to do? You've spent so much time looking towards "Earth" that you've forgotten that there are other "planets" and better yet, "stars" out there.

Look out into space and explore!

Remember when someone asked you to try something new but you were afraid? But then you tried it and found that you liked it? The same thing for women, everyone's afraid at first but who cares? Just do it.

Don't wait for the mail, let the mail man deliver to you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yup, a lot of us take this into our heads. But when it comes down to it, and you've been dating some girl for a while, we just don't apply. Looking back at my past expirences, this has happened quite a bit. Please do yourself a favor... Talk to 3 girls you're INTERESTED IN!! hah. I'd find myself interested in only one of the bunch. My approach/game would become stagnant cause I wouldn't find any NEW girls i was interested in. Easy way to set yourself up for "ms perfect", and not grow. Damn it! make them compete for you!!!!
 
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Originally posted by *29*
I cannot stress the importance of applying yourself to lots of women. Even two is better than one. The point is to not become too involved with just ONE woman. You'd put too much attention on her, and that's a no no.

For example, you've gotten his girl, we'll call her ''Earth", who is perfect in everything. "Earth" means everything to you. You just can't loser her because if you do, you'll die. Or so your mind thinks. You worship "Earth", provide ritual sacrifices, even cook for "Earth" 24/7. "Earth" dumps you because you seemed desperate and needy. So now you've been bansished by "Earth". What to do? You've spent so much time looking towards "Earth" that you've forgotten that there are other "planets" and better yet, "stars" out there.

Look out into space and explore!

Remember when someone asked you to try something new but you were afraid? But then you tried it and found that you liked it? The same thing for women, everyone's afraid at first but who cares? Just do it.

Don't wait for the mail, let the mail man deliver to you.
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Good thought provoking post...
 
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I don't agree fully with this. Each guy has a different way of dating, if he seeks one and if it doesn't work out, he looks for another. Some guys are into dating as many women and seeing who gives in to the relationship. Some guys don't care about relationship and only banging, and etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You can see it two ways:

1) It'll help you choose a woman who is more in touch with your likes and dislikes. Why waste time with just one woman and find out she doesn't suit your life? Having multiple contacts will increase your chances of finding a woman that suits your lifestyle. More importantly, it SAVES TIME. Remember, you're a Don Juan, your time is actually worth something.

2) It helps protect you. Women are emotion disturbers. They tug and pull at your feelings with all their might. If a woman flakes out on you...NEXT!

If I bought you a Mercedes 'cause I'm such a nice guy, and you crashed it, you'd be devestated, but more importantly, I'll never buy you another car again.

If I bought you 1000 Mercedes, you're so lucky, and you crashed one, big deal. Its pocket change.
 
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A religious movement birthed in New York that has influenced Hip Hop...

They believe 85% of people are deceived, 10% deceive and 5% speak enlightenment.

They are also know as the Nation of Gods and Earths...women are seen as Earths...
 
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5% = DJ's
10% = Women and Gay guys
85% = AFC's

Sounds about right.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't agree fully with this. Each guy has a different way of dating, if he seeks one and if it doesn't work out, he looks for another. Some guys are into dating as many women and seeing who gives in to the relationship. Some guys don't care about relationship and only banging, and etc.
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I'm all for dating a girl and if it doesn't work, move on. My problem is that I don't know what kind of girl i want to date. It's better that I talk to many women so I can find what I want first. Sometimes I look back at the past and laugh at the reasons I was interested in a girl; most of those girls were just evil! :p
 
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