Don't Act so Damn Corny Around Girls

[sstype]

I am guilty of this myself, but sometimes we get carried away with the newfound attention that we get as a result of self-improvement or whatever makes us better with the ladies that we get carried away with ourselves and end up acting corny as hell.

You know what I am talkin about...overdoing the C&F, having a cheesy smile plastered on our face, being hyperactive, trying to act like stand-up comedians, etc.

Remember don't think you are all of sudden the "good looking" ladies man because HB7.2 smiled at you while talking to her. Don't get all excited because of this. Don't be like "OMG...she actually smiled at me, time to go into full DJ-ALPHA GORILLA-PUA TYLER DURDEN MODE"

You will set yourself up for major disappointment if things dont go the way as planned. Plus they wont go as planned because now you act like a corny ass loser eager to get into her pants, and she will be able to sense that a mile away.

Her liking you should not be a big deal to you. You should be like, "ok, she likes me, but so does that girl I met last night, and that chick from logistics, and the babe from the party, so no big deal"...get my drift?

 

[Jariel]

Yep! I agree!

Stop firing yourself up and building up your hopes and just be cool.

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

guilty as charged

 

[comote]

Corny is in the eye of the beholder and in the delivery. My normal personality is pretty low key providing a contrast. I have pulled off corny by being so over the top(and different from my normal personality) with it that women can see that I am joking.

 

[BuckwildNYC]

LOL come to think of it I think I was acting a little corny last night. Thanks for the wake-up call. I gotta keep my cool more..............

 

[lYlasTer]

I was talking to a group of ladies last night and they were saying how they've never seen "Outies" before, as in the belly button. So a "Audi" car drove by and I'm like, "Hey there's an Audi."

Corny, but I thought it was witty