Actually be one, make a list of personality traits that you consider masculine, as many as you can think of. Now throw them under these catagories of what the display; Confidence, Attitude, High Self-Esteem, High Self-Worth, Indifferance. Now make a list of why a woman would want those traits in her man, then how you can display those traits. Once you have this its time to beat your self up a little, dont worry you will heal stronger, go throught the list honestly and make a note of all the traits you dont have or dont show.
Now that you know what to do, you need to know what NOT to display, this may be a little harder to come up with and to deal with because in sure you have a few of these. Dont show any traits that display; Insecurities, Low Self-Esteem, Low Self-Worth, Despiration, and that you aren't comfortable in your own skin. Make a list of things you do that fall into these catagories.
Heres the easy part, just take what you are doing wrong and look at its counter part, you already know why it works and how to do it. Dont be afraid to be a man, its in your DNA you cant help it, and dont. You are either the Dominator (XY) or the Submitor (XX), its your place to be the Dominant one, dont let her take that away from you.
Now that you know what to do, you need to know what NOT to display, this may be a little harder to come up with and to deal with because in sure you have a few of these. Dont show any traits that display; Insecurities, Low Self-Esteem, Low Self-Worth, Despiration, and that you aren't comfortable in your own skin. Make a list of things you do that fall into these catagories.
Heres the easy part, just take what you are doing wrong and look at its counter part, you already know why it works and how to do it. Dont be afraid to be a man, its in your DNA you cant help it, and dont. You are either the Dominator (XY) or the Submitor (XX), its your place to be the Dominant one, dont let her take that away from you.