Don's, do we think alike? Let's test it

[exile663dfx]

Calling all Don's. Do we think alike?

Before I get into detail in this thread let me explain why I want this to surface. Everyone has their own opinion of how to handle women, and we seem to agree on some things such as what is a AFC, or what is a NICE GUY. We all know diffferent women have to be dealt different ways, but let's face the facts, they're all women are they not?. So do great minds think alike, or do great minds think alone?

This thread is meant to understand how new men to the game, and as well as the experienced handle situations and how their opinions differ. I want you ALL to participate in this so we can learn from eachother.

The rule is simple.

1. You have to be honest and tell the truth.

We'll go through a series of questions and opinions on same situations. Let's make this fun, here is the form.

Remember answer in honesty.

Basic

-. How old are you?

-. Are you currently single?

-. What would you rate your looks? (Scale 1-10)

-. If in a relationship how long have you been dating? If not put N/A

-. How many plates are you spinning (If any)?

-. What does AFC mean to you? (Other than Avarage Fvcking Chump)

-. Do you consider youself an AFC?

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Scenario1: You meet a girl 8 (on scale) through mutual friends, you get her number, you call her up the next day, make a date for saturday, next day she cancels for next saturday, what do you do?

Scenario2: You're dating a girl. You're in a bar together, she asks if it's ok for her to dance with her male friend, how do you answer?

Scenario3: You notice your girl isn't giving you sex anymore. What do you do?

Scenario4: You meet a girl (anywhere), she seems to like you but wont give you her number, what do you do?

Scenario:5: You're at a fast food joint eating whatever, you see a hot chick alone and you want to get to know her, what do you do?

Scenario6: You get a girls number, do you TEXT or CALL?

Scenario7: You're at the club, alone. What do you do if you want to meet women?
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Other

Can you say you're successful with women?

Are you afraid to be rejected?

On a scale from 1-10 what is the hottest chick you ever dated?


I'll add more scenarios in part two.

 

[wataf]

Basic

-. How old are you? 23

-. Are you currently single? Yes

-. What would you rate your looks? (Scale 1-10) 8

-. If in a relationship how long have you been dating? If not put N/A

-. How many plates are you spinning (If any)? About 5-6

-. What does AFC mean to you? (Other than Avarage Fvcking Chump)
Someone that puts the ***** on a pedestal

-. Do you consider youself an AFC? No

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Scenario1: You meet a girl 8 (on scale) through mutual friends, you get her number, you call her up the next day, make a date for saturday, next day she cancels for next saturday, what do you do?

Wait a while if she doesnt respond MIGHT text her in a few days might cut her all together depends if i thought she was vibing me

Scenario2: You're dating a girl. You're in a bar together, she asks if it's ok for her to dance with her male friend, how do you answer?

Could care less my last gf had **** load of male friends all the classic orbiters

Scenario3: You notice your girl isn't giving you sex anymore. What do you do?

Confront her about it an ask if anything is wrong perhaps

Scenario4: You meet a girl (anywhere), she seems to like you but wont give you her number, what do you do?

I've got a good success rate on #'s and there is plenty of fish in the sea so i'd probaly go try and talk to other girls make her a little jealous if we were at a bar or something which is my usual training grounds.

Scenario:5: You're at a fast food joint eating whatever, you see a hot chick alone and you want to get to know her, what do you do?

Not much If the chick is a 9-10 if I could think of something clever to say I'd say it, or if she was glancing over to me id maybe say "I don't think we've met before" and go in for hand shake with name exchange. I did close a 6 at subway once she said "You're really handsome" total clinger seen her twice after i ****ed her got drinks thrown in my face both times.

Scenario6: You get a girls number, do you TEXT or CALL?
Most likely text these days chicks can be hesitant to pick up the phone but they're always on the crackberry

Scenario7: You're at the club, alone. What do you do if you want to meet women?

I'm a smoker great spot to talk to girls and do some kino is outside having a smoke so i'd probably go outside ask a girl for a lighter and it's on from there.

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Other

Can you say you're successful with women? Relatively

Are you afraid to be rejected? A little bit but i power through it

On a scale from 1-10 what is the hottest chick you ever dated? 8.5

 

[shizz702]

-. How old are you?
26
-. Are you currently single?
Yes
-. What would you rate your looks? (Scale 1-10)
8
-. If in a relationship how long have you been dating? If not put N/A
N/A
-. How many plates are you spinning (If any)?
2
-. What does AFC mean to you? (Other than Avarage Fvcking Chump)
A nice guy that feels like he has to buy a womans affection or put on some act like he is nice sweet guy to win her over. Is afraid of his sexuality and quivers over piddling bs women do.
-. Do you consider youself an AFC?
No.
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Scenario1: You meet a girl 8 (on scale) through mutual friends, you get her number, you call her up the next day, make a date for saturday, next day she cancels for next saturday, what do you do?
Shrug it off and do one of the following: go to the gym, hang out with friends, or see another plate.
Scenario2: You're dating a girl. You're in a bar together, she asks if it's ok for her to dance with her male friend, how do you answer?
I don't care.
Scenario3: You notice your girl isn't giving you sex anymore. What do you do?
Have sex with other girls.
Scenario4: You meet a girl (anywhere), she seems to like you but wont give you her number, what do you do?
Move on.
Scenario:5: You're at a fast food joint eating whatever, you see a hot chick alone and you want to get to know her, what do you do?
Give a few looks and catch her attention, and go for an approach.
Scenario6: You get a girls number, do you TEXT or CALL?
Prefer to call but I always text first these days. Like it or not that what these chicks prefer.
Scenario7: You're at the club, alone. What do you do if you want to meet women?
I don't like clubs, and I certainly would not go to one alone.
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Can you say you're successful with women?
Relatively yes, but not as succesful as I'd like to be. I'm always looking to improve.
Are you afraid to be rejected?
No, I'm desensitized to that stuff anymore.
On a scale from 1-10 what is the hottest chick you ever dated?
9

 

[Powerofmindset]

Calling all Don's. Do we think alike?

Before I get into detail in this thread let me explain why I want this to surface. Everyone has their own opinion of how to handle women, and we seem to agree on some things such as what is a AFC, or what is a NICE GUY. We all know diffferent women have to be dealt different ways, but let's face the facts, they're all women are they not?. So do great minds think alike, or do great minds think alone?

This thread is meant to understand how new men to the game, and as well as the experienced handle situations and how their opinions differ. I want you ALL to participate in this so we can learn from eachother.

The rule is simple.

1. You have to be honest and tell the truth.

We'll go through a series of questions and opinions on same situations. Let's make this fun, here is the form.

Remember answer in honesty.

Basic

-. How old are you? 25

-. Are you currently single? yes

-. What would you rate your looks? (Scale 1-10) 7.5 if 5 is average

-. If in a relationship how long have you been dating? If not put N/A

-. How many plates are you spinning (If any)? 3

-. What does AFC mean to you? (Other than Avarage Fvcking Chump) Someone who is never in control of his emotions. Someone who cares too much of what others think instead of just being himself. Someone who is a Yes, man. Someone who is still plugged in.

-. Do you consider youself an AFC? I have my moments but I love the progress I've made and there will always be more learning. I def see the light at the end of the tunnel.

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Scenario1: You meet a girl 8 (on scale) through mutual friends, you get her number, you call her up the next day, make a date for saturday, next day she cancels for next saturday, what do you do? Not give her a second chance to do it again unless she counter offers another date.

Scenario2: You're dating a girl. You're in a bar together, she asks if it's ok for her to dance with her male friend, how do you answer? Sure go ahead, make sure he buys you a drink after tho, I'll take a vodka press myself. Meanwhile, I'm looking for one of my FEMALE friends to dance with. Last time she does that!

Scenario3: You notice your girl isn't giving you sex anymore. What do you do? Withdrawl all my attention and talk to my other plates.

Scenario4: You meet a girl (anywhere), she seems to like you but wont give you her number, what do you do? Invite her out and if she doesn't want to give me her number then i'll just leave.

Scenario:5: You're at a fast food joint eating whatever, you see a hot chick alone and you want to get to know her, what do you do? Not really the ideal spot for me wanting to pick up girls while i'm stuffing my face with a burger but I honestly wouldn't do anything unless there was eye contact made.

Scenario6: You get a girls number, do you TEXT or CALL? Call...past I would ALWAYS text but I have a different mindset now.

Scenario7: You're at the club, alone. What do you do if you want to meet women? Get a drink right in the middle of 2 girls
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Other

Can you say you're successful with women? Yes but LTRs are still a challenge to me to some extent.

Are you afraid to be rejected? Not when it comes to women...when it comes to more important things...yes I still am but I don't let it consume me and still do the best possible.

On a scale from 1-10 what is the hottest chick you ever dated? Easily a 8.5


I'll add more scenarios in part two.

Response in bold.

 

[dutchmaster]

Basic

-. How old are you?
19

-. Are you currently single?
Yeah

-. What would you rate your looks? (Scale 1-10)
7-8 according to girls

-. If in a relationship how long have you been dating? If not put N/A.
N/A

-. How many plates are you spinning (If any)?
2

-. What does AFC mean to you? (Other than Avarage Fvcking Chump)
Someone who treats women like their equal

-. Do you consider youself an AFC?
no

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Scenario1: You meet a girl 8 (on scale) through mutual friends, you get her number, you call her up the next day, make a date for saturday, next day she cancels for next saturday, what do you do?

I follow the 2 strike rule, try to schedule one more if she cancels again just move on.

Scenario2: You're dating a girl. You're in a bar together, she asks if it's ok for her to dance with her male friend, how do you answer?
Take her for a dance instead

Scenario3: You notice your girl isn't giving you sex anymore. What do you do?
Call another plate 2 phuck

Scenario4: You meet a girl (anywhere), she seems to like you but wont give you her number, what do you do?
Keep trying, who gives a phuck. Not like i"ll see her again might as well go down swinging.

Scenario:5: You're at a fast food joint eating whatever, you see a hot chick alone and you want to get to know her, what do you do?
Comment on something going on to get her attention and invite her over to my table or go to hers.
Scenario6: You get a girls number, do you TEXT or CALL?
Depends on the girl, Normally I'd call though.

Scenario7: You're at the club, alone. What do you do if you want to meet women?

Approach groups.

 

[Leopold]

-. How old are you?
21

-. Are you currently single?
Yes

-. What would you rate your looks? (Scale 1-10)
7

-. If in a relationship how long have you been dating? If not put N/A
N/A

-. How many plates are you spinning (If any)?
N/A

-. What does AFC mean to you? (Other than Avarage Fvcking Chump)
A guy who tries to be very nice and sacrifice his beliefs or ideas in hope for a girl to like him as a male. Also a person who emasculates himself and does not embraces his male sexuality.

-. Do you consider youself an AFC?
No. Sometimes I still have my AFC moments but quickly snaps out of it.


Scenario1: You meet a girl 8 (on scale) through mutual friends, you get her number, you call her up the next day, make a date for saturday, next day she cancels for next saturday, what do you do?

- Dont bring it up and just move along. No contact whatsoever. Go to the gym and work out my frustrations.

Scenario2: You're dating a girl. You're in a bar together, she asks if it's ok for her to dance with her male friend, how do you answer?

- I really dont mind. I'll probably go and try to dance with another girl.

Scenario3: You notice your girl isn't giving you sex anymore. What do you do?

- No contact, no special attention, go try to find some another girl who can appreciate me more.

Scenario4: You meet a girl (anywhere), she seems to like you but wont give you her number, what do you do?

- Insist once more and if not... I'll just move along.

Scenario:5: You're at a fast food joint eating whatever, you see a hot chick alone and you want to get to know her, what do you do?

- Try to let her know I'm interested by trying to get eye contact. Once she has noticed if I see a smile across her face and she's giving me right signals therefore I'll approach.

Scenario6: You get a girls number, do you TEXT or CALL?

- Preferentially text due to my weird accent. Girls (young) are more receptive to text anyways.

Scenario7: You're at the club, alone. What do you do if you want to meet women?

- Never been to a club in my life. I dont think I'll would like to be alone in there. If its a party or event... I would definitively go and try to meet girls by engaging in conversations.

 

[runner83]

Calling all Don's. Do we think alike?

Before I get into detail in this thread let me explain why I want this to surface. Everyone has their own opinion of how to handle women, and we seem to agree on some things such as what is a AFC, or what is a NICE GUY. We all know diffferent women have to be dealt different ways, but let's face the facts, they're all women are they not?. So do great minds think alike, or do great minds think alone?

This thread is meant to understand how new men to the game, and as well as the experienced handle situations and how their opinions differ. I want you ALL to participate in this so we can learn from eachother.

The rule is simple.

1. You have to be honest and tell the truth.

We'll go through a series of questions and opinions on same situations. Let's make this fun, here is the form.

Remember answer in honesty.

Basic

-. How old are you? 28

-. Are you currently single? Yes

-. What would you rate your looks? (Scale 1-10) 7

-. If in a relationship how long have you been dating? If not put N/A N/A

-. How many plates are you spinning (If any)? 3 that I've banged previously, although very loose arrangements with them, nothing approaching serious

-. What does AFC mean to you? (Other than Avarage Fvcking Chump) Being a wuss with women, not putting yourself first, thinking the way to get a woman into your bed is to be nice, not understanding how attraction works for women.

-. Do you consider youself an AFC?
Not at all (although 8 years ago, I would have), the vast majority of the latest chicks I banged, I didn't go on a "date" for any of them before I banged them.

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Scenario1: You meet a girl 8 (on scale) through mutual friends, you get her number, you call her up the next day, make a date for saturday, next day she cancels for next saturday, what do you do?

Wouldn't have called her (text is better). Make new plans to meet up with her on a week night (sat night is not a good one), if she isn't into it, then put her on the back burner and do other chicks, but include her on my periodic random text message list

Scenario2: You're dating a girl. You're in a bar together, she asks if it's ok for her to dance with her male friend, how do you answer?

No problems, assuming I've already danced with her - then talk with other chicks while she is away, make sure she notices

Scenario3: You notice your girl isn't giving you sex anymore. What do you do?

The attraction is no longer there. Move on to other chicks for a period.

See if she chases, if she does, meet up with her again and bang her brains out.

Scenario4: You meet a girl (anywhere), she seems to like you but wont give you her number, what do you do?

If I won't see her again after that place - move on, forget her.

If I will see her again (e.g. it is social circle, friends or at work) - play it cool and see what happens.

Scenario:5: You're at a fast food joint eating whatever, you see a hot chick alone and you want to get to know her, what do you do?

Hot chicks are everywhere, no need to stop eating a meal just because you see one. I probably wouldn't even approach her unless I saw something to differentiate her from all the others, or she made eye contact with me.


Scenario6: You get a girls number, do you TEXT or CALL?

Text. Calling is only after you've banged her, and even then, minimally.


Scenario7: You're at the club, alone. What do you do if you want to meet women?

Pay attention to my surroundings and which women are looking at me. Go and talk to or dance with whichever cutest one with one friend or less makes eye contact with me, since she is chasing d!ck.

Ignore all the ones seeking attention hanging in large groups.

90% of the times I have picked up in a club, I was alone.


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Can you say you're successful with women?

Success depends on what your goals are.

For me, I am not chasing a relationship in the near future, so being able to bang chicks without having to commit to them or go on dates with them is my benchmark of success.

I've banged a married chick, chicks with boyfriends, chicks who randomly added me on facebook, picked up chicks in clubs, banged a couple from work (one in the sick room at work) and others, so I'm pretty satisfied with that.

Are you afraid to be rejected?

Rejection is a part of life, so if a chick isn't interested, no point crying about it. Just move onto the next one who does want to fvck.

On a scale from 1-10 what is the hottest chick you ever dated?

8.5 x 2, although subjective. Although strictly speaking, I never actually went on a "date" with either of them, it was just fvcking.

I'll add more scenarios in part two.

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[Serg897]

Basic

-. How old are you?
24

-. Are you currently single?
Yes

-. What would you rate your looks? (Scale 1-10)
Not sure - problably a 7 or 8

-. If in a relationship how long have you been dating? If not put N/A
N/A

-. How many plates are you spinning (If any)?
Im at the early stages of dating a few women right now - maybe 3-4 plates

-. What does AFC mean to you? (Other than Avarage Fvcking Chump)
Someone who allows women to take advantage of him, doesnt understand attraction

-. Do you consider youself an AFC?
Sometimes I still do, yes. Even after years of being on this website I am still learning

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Scenario1: You meet a girl 8 (on scale) through mutual friends, you get her number, you call her up the next day, make a date for saturday, next day she cancels for next saturday, what do you do?
Im assuming you mean she is trying to reschedule for the following week - I tell her I have to check my schedule, then decide if I want to do it or not based on that

Scenario2: You're dating a girl. You're in a bar together, she asks if it's ok for her to dance with her male friend, how do you answer?
Depends on the context, but ussually I would let her have at it. I am not one to be insecure about such things.

Scenario3: You notice your girl isn't giving you sex anymore. What do you do?
Withdraw attention and reassess the relationship, especially if the behavior is chronic

Scenario4: You meet a girl (anywhere), she seems to like you but wont give you her number, what do you do?
Move on. No number means she fails the first test

Scenario:5: You're at a fast food joint eating whatever, you see a hot chick alone and you want to get to know her, what do you do?
Usually just sit down close by and chat her up. Easy as that

Scenario6: You get a girls number, do you TEXT or CALL?
Almost always call.

Scenario7: You're at the club, alone. What do you do if you want to meet women?
I dont ussually go to clubs to meet women - I am part of several dancing communities that provide for a much better environment
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Can you say you're successful with women?
For the most part yes

Are you afraid to be rejected?
No

On a scale from 1-10 what is the hottest chick you ever dated?
10, although this lasted for a very short time

I'll add more scenarios in part two.

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[AlphaNate]

Basic

-. How old are you?

30

-. Are you currently single?

Yes

-. What would you rate your looks? (Scale 1-10)

8.5

-. If in a relationship how long have you been dating? If not put N/A

N/A

-. How many plates are you spinning (If any)?

Consistently? At least a dozen.

-. What does AFC mean to you? (Other than Avarage Fvcking Chump)

The male population that allows me to be unique to women.

-. Do you consider youself an AFC?

Not even close.

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Scenario1: You meet a girl 8 (on scale) through mutual friends, you get her number, you call her up the next day, make a date for saturday, next day she cancels for next saturday, what do you do?

"Can't make that. What about the next weekend?" (I don't care what the answer is. Unless she jumps on fixing those plans, she'll probably get dropped.)

Scenario2: You're dating a girl. You're in a bar together, she asks if it's ok for her to dance with her male friend, how do you answer?

"Don't do anything I wouldn't do." (And I WILL be flirting while you're gone.)

Scenario3: You notice your girl isn't giving you sex anymore. What do you do?

:crackup: What??

Scenario4: You meet a girl (anywhere), she seems to like you but wont give you her number, what do you do?

OOH! I had a situation like this not too long ago. I just let it ride while I played the field. Eventually she came around and gave me her number.

Scenario:5: You're at a fast food joint eating whatever, you see a hot chick alone and you want to get to know her, what do you do?

Make fun of her for eating in a fast food joint, of course.

Scenario6: You get a girls number, do you TEXT or CALL?

Text.

Scenario7: You're at the club, alone. What do you do if you want to meet women?

Location location location!! Honestly, at the club? I just get prepared for some good C&B and allow myself to be pleasantly surprised if anything comes out of it.

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Can you say you're successful with women?

Yes.

Are you afraid to be rejected?

Not at all.

On a scale from 1-10 what is the hottest chick you ever dated?

There are no 10's. I've been with a few 9.5's.

 

[ka_mate]

Basic

-. How old are you? 17

-. Are you currently single? No

-. What would you rate your looks? (Scale 1-10)

8

-. If in a relationship how long have you been dating? If not put N/A
Over a month (No idea when first date was) been out 5-6 times

-. How many plates are you spinning (If any)?

I have one that I've established rapport with but not going to do anything with because I'm in a relationship (she is as well).

-. What does AFC mean to you? (Other than Avarage Fvcking Chump)

Being afraid of your inability to attract women that you act needy, desperate and put up with girls treating you like dirt. Furthermore, accepting that they are treating you fine when they are treating you like S#$T. Taking S#$T

When I was AFC I went on two dates with a girl, didn't kiss close and got rejected 10 times over 10 weeks for a third date with her (all of these attempts were made over text message). Looking back, I basically did everything wrong that is possible to do. Never called her out or NC her after she kept saying no.

-. Do you consider youself an AFC?

Not any more

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Scenario1: You meet a girl 8 (on scale) through mutual friends, you get her number, you call her up the next day, make a date for saturday, next day she cancels for next saturday, what do you do?

Assuming she provides a plausible excuse, I would arrange a second date with her at a different time. If she flakes this time, that's it she never gets another shot with me. I would not speak to her between arranging for the 2nd attempt at the 1st date and the actual date.

Scenario2: You're dating a girl. You're in a bar together, she asks if it's ok for her to dance with her male friend, how do you answer?

This one I'm not sure about. If I felt there wasn't any chemistry between them I'd let her go (if he is AFC) and then I'd chat to girls at the bar. If she doesn't return after 2 songs I'll go find her and get rid of her friend and dance with her instead

Scenario3: You notice your girl isn't giving you sex anymore. What do you do?

This has never happened to me. Admittedly, I'm only 17 and if I'm trying to get sex going and she's rejecting then I'll probably reassess the relationship (I'm not in any serious relationships at 17) and think about moving on if things don't change. I would confront her about it before breaking up though

Scenario4: You meet a girl (anywhere), she seems to like you but wont give you her number, what do you do?

When she says "No I won't give you my number" if it's a party or a bar I'd say something and then leave her and go chat with other people. If it's like a never see again situation forget about her. Tons of other girls out there.

Scenario:5: You're at a fast food joint eating whatever, you see a hot chick alone and you want to get to know her, what do you do?

Go over, start a convo, number close

Scenario6: You get a girls number, do you TEXT or CALL?

Call

Scenario7: You're at the club, alone. What do you do if you want to meet women?

I can't legally go to a club so I have precisely zero experience to base this on but...try a bit of C&F, forget about the girls have a good time go in with no pressure and just chat up as many girls as possible. This is not my area of expertise (yet)
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Can you say you're successful with women?

Beginning to be. I only got rid of my AFCness before my current relationship but I am going to be successful in this relationship (I have the majority of power in the relationship) and in the future.

Are you afraid to be rejected?

Slightly but increasingly less so.

On a scale from 1-10 what is the hottest chick you ever dated?

8.5. This was the two dates didn't kiss close girl. Blonde hair, fit (plays tennis, swimming, running), cute, tanned;however, no tits.