"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've been fishing A LOT for the past 2 months. There's basically only two fish I like to catch and eat: Crappie and trout.

To catch each type of fish, you most always have to change up the 3 guidelines to fishing anything: Location, presentation, and behavior.

When I crappie fish, I look for stakes sticking up out of the water and cast in and around accordingly (location). I'll use either an emerger fly with bubble (for a big splash - stir up the waters) and a leader or a jig (presentation). When I'm reeling the lure back in, I always stop and reel a few feet, then stop, reel a few feet, then stop for about 3 seconds (behavior). I'll usually obtain a Strike with EVERY cast using this method. Instinctually, the fish (women, are as dumb as) just jump right on it. They'll flop and flip and aggressively Take it.

Trout fishing or sunfishing or bass fishing, you can just reel normally and constantly without stopping and they'll attack your fly.

Because I've caught hundreds of fish in one spot, yet go to another lake or another spot within the same lake or pond and catch almost nothing (skunked), I Realize that my expeditions in the field (clubs and bars, daygame etc.) all hinge on what I can observe and remember to go back to the same place when ever I Need to catch a girl.

Some places, you're not gonna catch anything. Some you are getting hits with Every cast/movement.

I know the hotspots across the entire state in which I live. My behavior isn't quite attuned to each place. Jesus adapted to all of the people he encountered on a person-to-person basis.

The element of lure, is kinda of my conundrum right now. What would be the lure in pickup in the field? Peacocking? What clothes will attract a Bite Every time like my emerger fly gets attacks from all shore fish. I need some sort of attractive fly like that to hook the women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Poonani Maker said:
I've been fishing A LOT for the past 2 months. There's basically only two fish I like to catch and eat: Crappie and trout.

To catch each type of fish, you most always have to change up the 3 guidelines to fishing anything: Location, presentation, and behavior.

When I crappie fish, I look for stakes sticking up out of the water and cast in and around accordingly (location). I'll use either an emerger fly with bubble (for a big splash - stir up the waters) and a leader or a jig (presentation). When I'm reeling the lure back in, I always stop and reel a few feet, then stop, reel a few feet, then stop for about 3 seconds (behavior). I'll usually obtain a Strike with EVERY cast using this method. Instinctually, the fish (women, are as dumb as) just jump right on it. They'll flop and flip and aggressively Take it.

Trout fishing or sunfishing or bass fishing, you can just reel normally and constantly without stopping and they'll attack your fly.

Because I've caught hundreds of fish in one spot, yet go to another lake or another spot within the same lake or pond and catch almost nothing (skunked), I Realize that my expeditions in the field (clubs and bars, daygame etc.) all hinge on what I can observe and remember to go back to the same place when ever I Need to catch a girl.

Some places, you're not gonna catch anything. Some you are getting hits with Every cast/movement.

I know the hotspots across the entire state in which I live. My behavior isn't quite attuned to each place. Jesus adapted to all of the people he encountered on a person-to-person basis.

The element of lure, is kinda of my conundrum right now. What would be the lure in pickup in the field? Peacocking? What clothes will attract a Bite Every time like my emerger fly gets attacks from all shore fish. I need some sort of attractive fly like that to hook the women.
I really like your post and a month or so ago I pondered upon some of the same reasoning...
in regards to presentation..I'm not sure if you got the right idea because it would vary...again upon location...you said it yourself.... you vary what type of bubler you use depending on what fish you want..I think you are on the right track....I like it... I really do..but you wouldn't try to dress like a prep; to pick up a gangsta b!tch, a gothic rave would you???
 

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chrisgoodrich25 said:
but you wouldn't try to dress like a prep; to pick up a gangsta b!tch, a gothic rave would you???
That's right. It's much like acting really. I need a custom wardrobe for each occasion. I've NEVER been to a gothic rave, but now am considering Trying it using the right rig outfit. I might have to get high to go there too. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Going into the unknown is where you'll luck up on finding some quick strange pvssy.
 

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Jesus. Fisher of men.

You can't catch a good girl looking like gigolo tony.

You can't catch a freak acting like urkel

You can't catch a gold digging hoe, looking like your homeless.
 
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