"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DonJuanForever, TRUST YOUR GUT/INTUITION

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DonJuanForever

I am posting this message because in my opinion it would help me, and also
for guys on this site that it would also help them out as well.

TRUST YOUR GUT/INTUITION.

So you guys know that I have been doing the seduction crap for a while now. Well
I met this girl and she seemed to be the one that I was always looking for. However,\
I always felt innerly despite her ******d appearance toward me, that she would
cheat on me, had been cheating on me, and would cheat/leave me for a "cooler/popular/richer"
guy at the drop of a hat.

When I told her about this feeling, she said, "No that's not true. Trust me, just trust me."
What did I do....I trusted her.

Now, just like what happened with the other "3 times I felt very close to a girl and
been in love" the feeling that I had came true once again.

I'm mad at myself for allowing this to happen, but I have no idea as to why a girl who
does things and says I love you and says it so that a dead man could feel it, how can
she just make up that stuff up and just move on like nothing?

I was thinking I was just insecure, etc. But the more and more I look at this shyt,
women cannot be loved anymore. I was fine when I was calling her a bytch, using her,
etc., because it only felt like she just wanted to have sex with SOMEBODY and I WAS
AVAILABLE. But her words and the things she did made me think it was real love and
she was the one.

Now, I know that according to Pook, Women Condemning is easier than Self-Realization,
but there is something really seriously wrong with women out here.

I don't want to be a player all my life, I don't want to just treat them badly, I actually
LIKE WOMEN. But the more and more I deal with these "people" the only damn thing I can
honestly invest into them is my dyck. IF I put anything else in it, like the stock market
it will crash through the floor.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJuanForever said:
Now, I know that according to Pook, Women Condemning is easier than Self-Realization,
but there is something really seriously wrong with women out here.
Rubbish, theres something wrong with YOU.
DonJuanForever said:
When I told her about this feeling, she said, "No that's not true. Trust me, just trust me."
What did I do....I trusted her.
Wait..you told her how insecure you are? Good move bozo, you deserved to be "cheated" on just on principle.

And to make matters worse you put stock into what she SAID as a reply to your bafoonery?

DonJuanForever said:
But her words and the things she did made me think it was real love and
she was the one.
Listen to yourself, "The One", "Real love"...you sound like a teenage girl freshly weened off reruns of The Gilmore Girls.
 
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Haha, I know the answer to your confused state!!

It is because you are not dealing with women - you are in reality dealing with hors!!!! See kid, hors "say" they love exeryone and yet, at the same time, they love noone - not even themselves!!!!

Quit falling in love with hors -- this is extremely unnatural and foolish!!! You have sex with hors - not love them!!:rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DonJuanForever said:
DonJuanForever

I was fine when I was calling her a bytch, using her,
etc., because it only felt like she just wanted to have sex with SOMEBODY and I WAS AVAILABLE. But her words and the things she did made me think it was real love and she was the one. .
Titty man, read the above!! A hor is a woman who has sex outside of marriage -- hors use words to manipulate and disguise!!!!

ForeverDJ, quit loving hors!!!!! You were just the next pimp in line!!!!!

You have sex with hors - NOT love them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Yeah man, It seems to me that a lot of the girls under about 25 I run into and talk to (female friends included) tend to be horish, flaky, and immature. They'll say one thing then go off and do the opposite...don't trust em.
 

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I would agree with titman and say that you're the problem. Want to keep a girl? Make her want to keep YOU and think ONLY of YOU.Almost all women will cheat on the spot if the situation is right,some harder, some easier.
 
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