"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lyamdb

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Making every girl feel that she's special to you, while you really don't give a fvck except for her hole. acting, acting, acting. shape your heart like a world wide ocean with the depth of 1 milimeter. actually, not having any heart! what good does the heart really do other then make you suffer?? just learn to fool people and don't fall for them! don't give a shyt, and make them give everything just by acting and lying.
I'm sorry but this is what I see working for any guy who's having fun with life. this is the type of guy to whom I see girls are constantly begging! and when I see these guys just dump girls after using them, it's a relief to me. all the pain and humilation I've always gone through just because I have been emotional fades away. yeah. this is what females deserve. even the best of them don't deserve love. just use them and spit them out like a gum.
I think this is also the spirit of what I have read in many books by guys like juggler ,david deangelo, pook and... there's nothing in their writings about emotions and love. and now I'm comming to realize how right they are.
plz correct me if I'm getting things wrong.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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lyamdb said:
Making every girl feel that she's special to you, while you really don't give a fvck except for her hole. acting, acting, acting. shape your heart like a world wide ocean with the depth of 1 milimeter. actually, not having any heart! what good does the heart really do other then make you suffer?? just learn to fool people and don't fall for them! don't give a shyt, and make them give everything just by acting and lying.
I'm sorry but this is what I see working for any guy who's having fun with life. this is the type of guy to whom I see girls are constantly begging! and when I see these guys just dump girls after using them, it's a relief to me. all the pain and humilation I've always gone through just because I have been emotional fades away. yeah. this is what females deserve. even the best of them don't deserve love. just use them and spit them out like a gum.
I think this is also the spirit of what I have read in many books by guys like juggler ,david deangelo, pook and... there's nothing in their writings about emotions and love. and now I'm comming to realize how right they are.
plz correct me if I'm getting things wrong.

This spirit you write of is the PUA spirit. Not the Don Juan spirit.
 

PigAdlemPimp

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You sound like one of the fvcked up heart broken dudes that Elvis Presley used to sing about, listen to "You're The Devil In Disguise" and "Hard Headed Woman" and you'll understand what he was singing about I'm sure. :cry:
 

Falcon

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lyamdb said:
Making every girl feel that she's special to you, while you really don't give a fvck except for her hole. acting, acting, acting. shape your heart like a world wide ocean with the depth of 1 milimeter. actually, not having any heart! what good does the heart really do other then make you suffer?? just learn to fool people and don't fall for them! don't give a shyt, and make them give everything just by acting and lying.
I'm sorry but this is what I see working for any guy who's having fun with life. this is the type of guy to whom I see girls are constantly begging! and when I see these guys just dump girls after using them, it's a relief to me. all the pain and humilation I've always gone through just because I have been emotional fades away. yeah. this is what females deserve. even the best of them don't deserve love. just use them and spit them out like a gum.
I think this is also the spirit of what I have read in many books by guys like juggler ,david deangelo, pook and... there's nothing in their writings about emotions and love. and now I'm comming to realize how right they are.
plz correct me if I'm getting things wrong.
wow bud, did you really get those ideas from pook? Even juggler and deangelo wouldn't recommend all the things you are saying. It's amazing how people can read the same things and get completely different interpretations. wow
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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