"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don Juans in Pittsburgh

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What kind of date? What kind of chick? How much dough are you trying to spend? What area of Pittsburgh?
Some ideas: Round Hill park in Elizebeth (petting the animals)

John Harvards brew house Monroeville( Avg 12-15$ a plate)

Stay away from the run of the mill resturants like chi-chi's, red lobster, chili's, olive garden.

Be interesting...if your trying to spend some dough take her to Poli's in squirrel hill.

She has been to all those chain resturants many times.....personally I dont take a girl out for dinner for at least two dates...dont spend more than 15$ on the first date. If you feel that you need to spend more than 15$ on her to impress her get a new chick!!
Hope this helps
 
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