"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don Juan's from London.

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Hey guys/Girls (if there are any on this forum)

Just moved to London about two months ago. I'm looking for DJ'ers perfecting their skills to meet up with. I have a lot of background theory but finding it hard applying in real life (Yes I do have Approach Anexiety like everyone).

So looking for a few guys who are bit advanced in the game of course to see them in action <-- Like David D says hang with some guys who really know this stuff so that you'll improve your skills far better.

I'm in E14 area so drop me a line at [email protected].

Just coming off a LTR. E-mail and we'll see what happens.

Thanks
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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You in Finance or just in the area?
 
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Sorry man, I meant do you work in E14 or just live there?
 
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Advanced Wings.

I live in E14 area Canary Wharf to be exact.

So looking for a few advanced guys to learn in-field.

Let me know

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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