Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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DON JUAN vs. PIMP

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I just realized something...and that we have been overlooking something... There is a fundamental difference between the art of PICKING UP "Seducing" women (as does DON JUAN) and the art of mastering RELATIONSHIPS (as does a PIMP)

THIS IS HUGE and needs to be addressed.... i.e. If you want to pick up the most amount of women and f.uck them you need to master the art of Don Juan, and if you want to succeed in a relationship you need to master the art of Pimping...

There is some overlap because obviously some traits (such as ****ines, funny) are more attractive then others (such as weakness, neediness, ). If you havent noticed already, my posts tend to lean more toward art of PIMPING (as in my IMPORTANCE OF MENTAL ABUSE post). And yes, if you want a successful relationship you need to learn it. i.e. what is a good relationship, one where girls 1)listens 2)cares for you 3)does things for you 4)faithfull etc etc etc.. art of pimping will help you to MAINTAIN these things (although Don Juan will also maintain this, the techniques are really ment for seducing a woman (look up history of Don Juan) not to make/turn her into ideal relationship material...

In conclusion, you should "Don Juan" her into bed, and then "Pimp" her into relationshp material (if you feel she is a keeper)...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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New breed

Shezz said:
Don Juan = Smooth Talking lady killer, knows what he wants, has a life, isnt scared of his masculinity - easily capable of holding down a LTR

PIMP = Straight up MAN, in your face, No bs direct game - sells womens azz for money - all about getting up inside a womans head and controlling her.


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I actually read some books on art of pimping.. i.e. they defined different types of pimps, what are tricks, bla bla bla...

I agree with you, ultimatly true definition of a PIMP is that controlls a relationship for economic gain (i.e. via prostitution)

The key is level of "CONTROL" in LTR (long term relationship), and my argument is that a PIMP will have MUCH HIGHER CONTROL in LTR then Don Juan. I am not saying to prostitute your girl out or physically abuse her, I am saying that some of the "bluff" techniques that PIMPS use work great to earn CONTROL in your relationship.

Think of UFC (ultimate fighting championship), the new fighters learn not only the art of striking but also the art of ground fighting. i.e. a new breed of fighter exists now (i.e. Tito Ortiz). Simmilarly, the art of PIMPING should be incorporated into your armenetareium to gain just another edge in your personal success. Hence, you should apply the art of MENTAL ABUSE (modified push/pull) in your LTR and even in EARLY DATING TECHNIEQUE (i.e. I can start doing it from day one, i.e. start testing the water/push the envelope immedietly)
 
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