"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DON JUAN vs. PIMP

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I just realized something...and that we have been overlooking something... There is a fundamental difference between the art of PICKING UP "Seducing" women (as does DON JUAN) and the art of mastering RELATIONSHIPS (as does a PIMP)

THIS IS HUGE and needs to be addressed.... i.e. If you want to pick up the most amount of women and f.uck them you need to master the art of Don Juan, and if you want to succeed in a relationship you need to master the art of Pimping...

There is some overlap because obviously some traits (such as ****ines, funny) are more attractive then others (such as weakness, neediness, ). If you havent noticed already, my posts tend to lean more toward art of PIMPING (as in my IMPORTANCE OF MENTAL ABUSE post). And yes, if you want a successful relationship you need to learn it. i.e. what is a good relationship, one where girls 1)listens 2)cares for you 3)does things for you 4)faithfull etc etc etc.. art of pimping will help you to MAINTAIN these things (although Don Juan will also maintain this, the techniques are really ment for seducing a woman (look up history of Don Juan) not to make/turn her into ideal relationship material...

In conclusion, you should "Don Juan" her into bed, and then "Pimp" her into relationshp material (if you feel she is a keeper)...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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New breed

Shezz said:
Don Juan = Smooth Talking lady killer, knows what he wants, has a life, isnt scared of his masculinity - easily capable of holding down a LTR

PIMP = Straight up MAN, in your face, No bs direct game - sells womens azz for money - all about getting up inside a womans head and controlling her.


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I actually read some books on art of pimping.. i.e. they defined different types of pimps, what are tricks, bla bla bla...

I agree with you, ultimatly true definition of a PIMP is that controlls a relationship for economic gain (i.e. via prostitution)

The key is level of "CONTROL" in LTR (long term relationship), and my argument is that a PIMP will have MUCH HIGHER CONTROL in LTR then Don Juan. I am not saying to prostitute your girl out or physically abuse her, I am saying that some of the "bluff" techniques that PIMPS use work great to earn CONTROL in your relationship.

Think of UFC (ultimate fighting championship), the new fighters learn not only the art of striking but also the art of ground fighting. i.e. a new breed of fighter exists now (i.e. Tito Ortiz). Simmilarly, the art of PIMPING should be incorporated into your armenetareium to gain just another edge in your personal success. Hence, you should apply the art of MENTAL ABUSE (modified push/pull) in your LTR and even in EARLY DATING TECHNIEQUE (i.e. I can start doing it from day one, i.e. start testing the water/push the envelope immedietly)
 
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