"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don Juan vs Douchebag

Jariel

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I follow a middle path between the two. On one hand I live for self improvement, I'm charismatic and know how to make people feel good. I carry myself with genuine class and confidence.

I don't believe in acting "gangsta" or being disrespectful to people just for the sake of being a jerk. If people are good to me, I treat them well. I'm very popular and people gravitate towards me.

On the other hand, if I want something, I won't let "ethics" stand in my way. I won't hesitate to steal another guys gf/wife. I play the field and I have sex with women and don't call.

Personally, I think being sexual and being a challenge is more effective than generally acting like a d!ck. A lot of so-called jerks/a$$holes/douchebags are just putting on an act or copying their favourite gangsta rappers. It's pretty pathetic really.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PapiChulo

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Young_gun73 said:
It will start working when you wipe the c*m off your face and get off your knees.

JERK.
Idiot. Ha ha that line is pretty pathetic. Are you still in grade 8? surely sounds like it.
 

PapiChulo

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Twenty-Two Two's said:
Irony. You have at least four grammar mistakes in this post alone.
Says the moron with 5 posts. Dude, English is my forth language so you can suck on it. Did you have trouble comprehending it?
 

European-DJ

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I have become a HIGH level Douchebag after joining this DJ/PUA community.
- And it helps a lot, i have gotten laid and meet more woman, in the last 3 months, then i have the last 18 years. So i guess it does help.

But IMHO, i would like to change to more of a DJ instead, since the Douchebag thing is making me look bad - more like a player :S!
 

Ease

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PapiChulo said:
Idiot. Ha ha that line is pretty pathetic. Are you still in grade 8? surely sounds like it.
Unfortunately he has a point.

Your life will significantly improve if you get off your knees and stop sucking so much damn ****!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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