"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don Juan vs Douchebag

Jariel

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I follow a middle path between the two. On one hand I live for self improvement, I'm charismatic and know how to make people feel good. I carry myself with genuine class and confidence.

I don't believe in acting "gangsta" or being disrespectful to people just for the sake of being a jerk. If people are good to me, I treat them well. I'm very popular and people gravitate towards me.

On the other hand, if I want something, I won't let "ethics" stand in my way. I won't hesitate to steal another guys gf/wife. I play the field and I have sex with women and don't call.

Personally, I think being sexual and being a challenge is more effective than generally acting like a d!ck. A lot of so-called jerks/a$$holes/douchebags are just putting on an act or copying their favourite gangsta rappers. It's pretty pathetic really.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PapiChulo

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Young_gun73 said:
It will start working when you wipe the c*m off your face and get off your knees.

JERK.
Idiot. Ha ha that line is pretty pathetic. Are you still in grade 8? surely sounds like it.
 

PapiChulo

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Twenty-Two Two's said:
Irony. You have at least four grammar mistakes in this post alone.
Says the moron with 5 posts. Dude, English is my forth language so you can suck on it. Did you have trouble comprehending it?
 

European-DJ

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I have become a HIGH level Douchebag after joining this DJ/PUA community.
- And it helps a lot, i have gotten laid and meet more woman, in the last 3 months, then i have the last 18 years. So i guess it does help.

But IMHO, i would like to change to more of a DJ instead, since the Douchebag thing is making me look bad - more like a player :S!
 

Ease

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PapiChulo said:
Idiot. Ha ha that line is pretty pathetic. Are you still in grade 8? surely sounds like it.
Unfortunately he has a point.

Your life will significantly improve if you get off your knees and stop sucking so much damn ****!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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