"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don Juan Gene Simmons

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I have developed a huge appreciation for Gene Simmons after watching several eps of Gene Simmons Family Jewels and I've never been a huge fan of Kiss and I wouldn't want to insult true fans by pretending that I am. Gene embodies a lot of the characteristics we aspire to as DJ's. What I admire most is his unrelenting self-belief and self-reliance. Yes he's a rock star and that makes getting a$$ a whole lot easier but I get the distinct impression Gene would still be getting all the a$$ he wanted even if he was an accountant. In any case he's self made and has earned every last bit of success and a$$ he's enjoyed over the years.

Take away the cameras, money and fame and Gene still has incredible game.

I watched an ep tonight where Shannon sent him off to a therpay session, ostensibly to talk about his reluctance to marry her. It started as a one on one session with the female therapist and Shannon came in at the end. Gene dominated the session and the worthless, shallow therapist. I don't mean he bullied anyone, I mean he dominated the therapist and his partner intellectually.

Gene didn't need therapy, he knew himself inside out, knew exactly what motivated him and what events in his childhood were reponsible for shaping his adult behaviours. He knew exactly whey he chose to avoid marriage, he described how "relationships" and marriage inevitably lead to feelings of ownership and eventually mutual hatred. Gene's words could have been ripped straight from the SS Hall of Fame or the Book of Pook. He was absolutely consistent in the application of his beliefs, one conclusion led directly to another in logical fashion.

The female therapist and Gene's partner Shannon couldn't even offer a proper rebuttal. They just moved on to other questions without acknowledging the validity of Gene's argument. Naturally there was a lot of talk about feelings and very little discussion about the salient points Gene brought up. Not surprising really, but I thought a professional relationship therapist might be more in tune with reality.

On another note, It's very instructive to observe how those closest to Gene (his family) are constantly trying to bring him down, they mock him ceaselessly, despite the fact that he makes their very comfortable lives possible. But Gene, like a true DJ is indomitable, he never falters, he never lets those weaker than him bring him down, he knows what he's achieved, he's calm and strong in the face of it all.

It's so very clear that Shannon and her sister mock Gene because they're very, very insecure. Gene could leave at any time, they know it and they know Gene knows that.

I also like the fact that even though Shannon is a ball-breaking b!tch who likes to order Gene around he just calmly goes and does his own thing regardless.

Yeah, just a little man-crush you could say.

Does anybody know if Gene is still f@#$king other groupies?

Any other thoughts on why Gene is or is not a good example of a DJ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A hell of a father too I might add. His kids actually seem like pretty decent human beings.
 

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Gene Simmons is a Dj for sure but would he act the way he does if he had not been a rockstar, but had to work 9-5 jobs like all of us all his life and didn't have millions of dollars? Being a rockstar makes you a DJ due to having so many interactions with women. He didn't have to go sarge at malls hoping women would talk to him, they just came to him for being a rockstar.

I'm not trying to discredit him because he's a very smart guy, but I have much more respect and admiration for PUA's and PIMPS because these guys had to learn the game the hard way rather than becoming a rockstar and getting pu$$y thrown at you left and right. I look up to PUA's more because most of them were afc's or nerds who went through trial and error and now can bang any woman they want and they been doing it long before they started getting noticed by the media and got fame.
 

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I love how people discredit rock stars as having it easy. I want you to go to myspace and count how many rock bands are out there. Then go to billboard and see how many of them are in the top 10. And see how many are touring. It may be a sweet life once the ball is rolling, but its also a long shot and full of hard work. A PUA's hard work goes into getting women, a rock stars hard work goes into being a rock star. The bad part is, the PUA's hardwork doesn't pay anything unless he starts teaching it to other people, while the rockstars hard work generates pu$$y as a byproduct. Fame/Talent/Wealth generates pu$$y as a byproduct.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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On one of the episodes of Family Jewels he took a lie detector test in a radio station studio. They asked him if he had ever cheated on Shannon in the 20+ years they had been together. He said no and the machine said he was telling the truth. I know the machines aren't perfect, but he's either great at lying or he's been a good boy.
 

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I don't think it's a huge stretch to say that rock stars would make good PUA's and PUA's would make good rock stars (music skills aside). That's no accident of course, both require charisma, sexuality, self-belief, a certain type of narcissism. I'm sure there are also rock stars who have no game and are probably only getting laid because of their status.

Fascinating that Gene might have been monogamous for twenty plus years, of course if the question was about "cheating" and he and Shannon have an open relationship of some kind then it's not so clear what he meant. How does a man go from 4200 sexual conquests to a life of monogamy? It certainly appears as though Shannon likes to ration out the pu$$y as meagreley as any other trophy wife.

That's where Gene appears a little incongruent to me, when he lets Shannon own his c0ck -if that's what's actually happening. I bet it's hard after 20 years to keep that edge, that distance, keep her wanting just a little bit more of you, even when you're Gene Simmons.
 

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Some delicious quotes from Gene Simmons, given how familiar this stuff sounds I can't believe he doesn't post in the SS forums!

On self-confidence:

"I think I'm good, really, really good. And when I look in the mirror, I think I'm really handsome. It's delusional. But it works!"

"If there's anything worth spending money on, it's improving your language and people skills. You are your main product. The more people like you, the more likely they'll be to invest in you. Motivational speakers - you always get something out of them, because they know how to talk."

On family and holidays, given his work habits:

"I live in Beverly Hills! Everybody wants to come to my place for vacation! My TV show is filmed at home. Do I see enough of my kids. Sure. Do they want to see me? I'm 59! My son's 19. They never had allowances. They wanted money, they did chores. We have one absolute rule. You will never be high or drunk in my house. If you are caught, I will kick your Beverly Hills butt straight into a work camp in the Arizona desert.

"Love your mother, fear your father."

"'I'm not your friend!' I tell my kids. 'I'm your father!'"

On why did his kids turned out so well:

"Because we did not negotiate with them. I told them at an early age: You are not qualified to assess my decisions because you are an uninformed amoeba. There are repercussions when you make a bad decision. I'm bigger than you are. This is my house, not yours. I paid for it. Your room is not your room, it's my room.
 

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Sounds just like my dad on the parenting stuff. Although my dad would never say Love your mother, fear your father, that's just the way it was.
 

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Some more pearls from Gene.

"Believe me, the library is the temple of God. Education is the most sacred religion of all."

"Walk amongst the natives by day, but in your heart be Superman."

"Men want success and sex. Women want everything."

"Women are from Mars, men have a penis"

" Before I ever knew what the word Entrepeneur was, I realized in America and in the Western part of the world in general, you are given the opportunity to be whatever you want to be. And that is all anyone should ever expect from the Capitalist system. The rest is up to you.

It's up to you to educate yourself.

It's up to you to learn speaking skills and people skills.

It's up to you to try (and usually fail, but to try again) all sorts of ventures.

The rest is a combination of hard work, being at the right place ...at the right time...with the right thing...oh yes...and more (never ending) hard work."

"Life is too short to have anything but delusional notions about yourself."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You guys know I'm black and thought you guys were talk about richard simmons. Anyways that's some good words of wisdom by gene.
 

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Well you know I tried to find something something intelligent and useful from the mouth of DJ (ahem) Richard Simmons and this was the closest I could find:

“I might as well be gay. And not just because I love rhinestones and Barbara Streisand. But because I'm a sensitive person who is supportive of gay people the same way I'm sensitive to grossly obese people and ugly people.”

What the hell is he smoking?....oh that's right...pole.
 
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