"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don Juan Forum has changed my life!!

Canadien

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For me I didn't know a lot of concepts, and theories when I first came here, and I don't have many outgoing friends.

So, after six months, This place has really opened my eyes, its great to have a online community that supports so many people working to improve themselves.

I give thanks to all DJ contributing to this great forum, working to improve social interaction of other, I can't think of better deed...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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L777

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Ditto. I'm thankful I was so crap with women, otherwise I wouldn't have found this community so young. :D
 

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This place changed me too. Now I'm an offical *******, and I got a tattoo on my back that says 'AFC 4Evar' striken out and creatively reenacting spray paint, I R Analhole.

:D
 

Vypros

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Docs said:
This place changed me too. Now I'm an offical *******, and I got a tattoo on my back that says 'AFC 4Evar' striken out and creatively reenacting spray paint, I R Analhole.

:D
I hope that was a joke. lol
 

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Canadien said:
For me I didn't know a lot of concepts, and theories when I first came here, and I don't have many outgoing friends.

So, after six months, This place has really opened my eyes, its great to have a online community that supports so many people working to improve themselves.

I give thanks to all DJ contributing to this great forum, working to improve social interaction of other, I can't think of better deed...
watch the Mystery Method DVDs if you want to get better.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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frivolousz21

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good to here..mine too...as long as people apply the dj bible and do a few bootcamps..they will be set free...


Practice makes perfect
 

So pimp its scary

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Canadian... Don't fall into the Keyboard Jockey Trap... I fell into that for a while, where I was more interested in learning all that I could before doing anything... and then questioning everything that did happen on the board.

Commit yourself to a bootcamp, and run it through untill you finished it... to give an idea it took me 3 tries before making it past the second week.

Also, be wary of the advice on the forum. there are plenty of people that post with little experience themselves to offer good advice.

Where in Canada?
 

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Yeah, this place changed me alot and now that I think about it, this is my first post in three months (my life hasn't been the same).

I now know why i've been under so much stress, cause i haven't been coming to this page to help fellow comrades out.

I guess the myspace incident with this page taught me a lesson (long story).



http://www.myspace.com/ballencinco
 
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